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KarmaPolice

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Why is it that almost every girl I am intersted in is not single! The good ones are already taken!


Now, how to get them to break up with them and go out with me.....suggestions?
 
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MisterJackson

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I like that you're trying to break up someones relationship and you call yourself "KarmaPolice". Just remember, if she leaves him for you, then she'll leave you when I come around.
 
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Zolty

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Get a girlfriend, and you will have hot single women hitting on you all the time.
 
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DaShen

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There are plenty of great girls out there to date that are available. You just aren't really being observant enough to find them. Hang out with new people and stop just "looking" for a girlfriend. Girls (and people in general) can smell desperation a mile away. Just go out there and hang out with new people and you will know when good girl comes along.

Originally posted by: Pablo
just become their friends... seems like that's the cool thing to do on these forums...
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:roll: One of the best ways to figure out if a girl is right for you is to be their friend first. :)
Sometimes it doesn't work out the way you plan, but who cares, such is life. It just means that you pick yourself up and find someone else. If you do this, you gain some friends and you also eventually will gain an SO.
 
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KarmaPolice

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Originally posted by: DaShen
There are plenty of great girls out there to date that are available. You just aren't really being observant enough to find them. Hang out with new people and stop just "looking" for a girlfriend. Girls (and people in general) can smell desperation a mile away. Just go out there and hang out with new people and you will know when good girl comes along.

Originally posted by: Pablo
just become their friends... seems like that's the cool thing to do on these forums...
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:roll: One of the best ways to figure out if a girl is right for you is to be their friend first. :)
Sometimes it doesn't work out the way you plan, but who cares, such is life. It just means that you pick yourself up and find someone else. If you do this, you gain some friends and you also eventually will gain an SO.
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I know man. It just seems recently its the way things are going. I hang out with a lot of people, and i stay active. All of my gfs i have had have come from friendships. I have never been able to be the guy that will ask a girl out randomly. My brother is in a great relationship right now and they started as friends as well.

I am simply annoyed that the girl I most attracted to at the moment is not single.
 
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DaShen

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Originally posted by: KarmaPolice
I know man. It just seems recently its the way things are going. I hang out with a lot of people, and i stay active. All of my gfs i have had have come from friendships. I have never been able to be the guy that will ask a girl out randomly. My brother is in a great relationship right now and they started as friends as well.

I am simply annoyed that the girl I most attracted to at the moment is not single.
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.... If you really respect her, you might need to give her a little space then. Don't completely cut off ties, but give yourself a little time to get over her (it will be different for different people). You can still hang out with them, but only in big groups. Chances are you are putting an ideal on her, that she really doesn't completely fit anyways (you are infatuated with something that is unattainable at the moment).

While doing this, enjoy singlehood. Seriously. Being single can be a very great time to do whatever you want. You don't have to check up with someone before dropping everything and just hanging at with the guys. For example, I went out with a group of my friends, and ate out, watched a game, played video games... just yesterday. I was able to drop everything and go out for the night without asking (checking up on) someone to see if it was okay with them that I would be out for the rest of the night. Man, though am I completely tired at work right now. ;) I just want to fall asleep on my keyboard. (I was even considering playing tennis/basketball with the guys late at night at a lighted stadium last night, but that would have been overkill)
 
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KarmaPolice

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Originally posted by: DaShen
Originally posted by: KarmaPolice
I know man. It just seems recently its the way things are going. I hang out with a lot of people, and i stay active. All of my gfs i have had have come from friendships. I have never been able to be the guy that will ask a girl out randomly. My brother is in a great relationship right now and they started as friends as well.

I am simply annoyed that the girl I most attracted to at the moment is not single.
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.... If you really respect her, you might need to give her a little space then. Don't completely cut off ties, but give yourself a little time to get over her (it will be different for different people). You can still hang out with them, but only in big groups. Chances are you are putting an ideal on her, that she really doesn't completely fit anyways (you are infatuated with something that is unattainable at the moment).

While doing this, enjoy singlehood. Seriously. Being single can be a very great time to do whatever you want. You don't have to check up with someone before dropping everything and just hanging at with the guys. For example, I went out with a group of my friends, and ate out, watched a game, played video games... just yesterday. I was able to drop everything and go out for the night without asking (checking up on) someone to see if it was okay with them that I would be out for the rest of the night. Man, though am I completely tired at work right now. ;) I just want to fall asleep on my keyboard. (I was even considering playing tennis/basetball with the guys late at night at a lighted stadium last night, but that would have been overkill)
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Good advice but its not like i am infatuated over her. I hung out with them for about 2 weeks, but got to know them a bit better this weekend. Just saying I am attracted and would pursue if she was single.
 
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DaShen

Lifer
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Originally posted by: KarmaPolice
Good advice but its not like i am infatuated over her. I hung out with them for about 2 weeks, but got to know them a bit better this weekend. Just saying I am attracted and would pursue if she was single.
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The thing is... she isn't single, so the right thing to do if you respect this girl is to not think about her in that way. :)

There have been plenty of girls that have gone out with guys I know that were all great people, but you need to change that mentallity of saying she is someone you "like" or it will only hurt your attitude on relationships otherwise.

I have seen it happen.
 
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KarmaPolice

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Originally posted by: DaShen
Originally posted by: KarmaPolice
Good advice but its not like i am infatuated over her. I hung out with them for about 2 weeks, but got to know them a bit better this weekend. Just saying I am attracted and would pursue if she was single.
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The thing is... she isn't single, so the right thing to do if you respect this girl is to not think about her in that way. :)

There have been plenty of girls that have gone out with guys I know that were all great people, but you need to change that mentallity of saying she is someone you "like" or it will only hurt your attitude on relationships otherwise.

I have seen it happen.
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we are fine friends...we just met 2 weeks ago. I have done nothing that would be consider hitting on her. I am not even trying anything. Thats not my nature to be a home recker..
 
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DaShen

Lifer
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Originally posted by: KarmaPolice
we are fine friends...we just met 2 weeks ago. I have done nothing that would be consider hitting on her. I am not even trying anything. Thats not my nature to be a home recker..
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I guess, you are one of the guys who is secure in themselves then and therefore it is easier for you (or takes less time) to deal and give up on certain things. :) Good for you. :thumbsup:
 
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pcnerd37

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I have the exact same problem, every girl i find attractive already has a bf. That is why I have decided that for now im not even going to try to look for a relationship, if a girl wants to go out with me, she can ask, otherwise im going to focus on school. As for your wanting to steal them away from guys, there is a website dedicated to that, i think its like girlfriendstealers.com Its worth checking out as it does have some advice.
 
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IceBergSLiM

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you've just hit a rough patch. Next week you'll be complaining that you have so many options you are having trouble choosing. roll with the punches and keep looking.
 
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KarmaPolice

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Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
you've just hit a rough patch. Next week you'll be complaining that you have so many options you are having trouble choosing. roll with the punches and keep looking.
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