Every girl i ever dated was dated someone else when i met her. true for anyone else?

[PlatinumGold]

I just always found this strange. Every girl i ever dated was dating someone else when i met them. it's not like i "stole" this girl away, we would just hit it off and then we would start dating. Even my wife, when i first met her, she was dating someone else to. it was kind of a big deal among her friends because they always thought she would end up marrying the guy she was with before.

i don't know, i've always wondered why it couldn't be simpler, why I, when i'm unattached, couldn't meet someone who was also unattached and then start dating.

ON the other hand, I've never been in a current relationship when i've met the person i started dating next (hope that sentence made sense).

anyway, i always thought it was weird.

 

[Booster]

Every girl i ever dated was dated someone else when i met her. true for anyone else?

Well, it wouldn't be true if I find a girlfriend someday (for her), b/c I wouldn't be dating someone else at the moment. Huh. I hope I put this right

 

[stonecold3169]

hehe, bingo, my exact experiance with females... remember, "Women are like parking spots, all the good ones are taken and the rest are handicapped" ... in all honesty though, there's a reason why we approach the females we do. In most cases, these qualities get them lots of attention, it's just our job to show them that we're better

 

[Keego]

hasn't been my experiences at all. One girl swore off dating alltogether before she met me

 

"I just always found this strange. Every girl i ever dated was dating someone else when i met them. it's not like i 'stole' this girl away, we would just hit it off and then we would start dating. Even my wife, when i first met her, she was dating someone else to. it was kind of a big deal among her friends because they always thought she would end up marrying the guy she was with before."

Oh, in other words . . . you're a snatcher? :Q If it isn't "stealing" then what is it?

Well, that's not my kind of thing. Even if someone is willing to go out with me whilst they're dating someone else, I won't accept it. It's just my philosophy that that person has no class and is likely to do the same to me. Hey again, that's my belief system and my perception of people who engage in such. I don't think that it's normal either. It's a requirement in my book that someone ends it officially and courteously with the other party before anything starts between us.

 

[Koing]

Originally posted by: luvly
"I just always found this strange. Every girl i ever dated was dating someone else when i met them. it's not like i 'stole' this girl away, we would just hit it off and then we would start dating. Even my wife, when i first met her, she was dating someone else to. it was kind of a big deal among her friends because they always thought she would end up marrying the guy she was with before."

Oh, in other words . . . you're a snatcher? :Q If it isn't "stealing" then what is it?

Well, that's not my kind of thing. Even if someone is willing to go out with me whilst they're dating someone else, I won't accept it. It's just my philosophy that that person has no class and is likely to do the same to me. Hey again, that's my belief system and my perception of people who engage in such. I don't think that it's normal either. It's a requirement in my book that someone ends it officially and courteously with the other party before anything starts between us.

That is my thinking also. If I can take someone from a relationship then that *could* happen to you also when you are in a relationship with her. If someone else comes along 'better'.

But I also think that if she hasn't got a ring on her finger then shes game

I think that if I found a nice girl already in a relationship and she wanted to be with me I'd *date* her and get her to dump that guy if I like her a lot. But in return I expect a girl to get rid of me if she finds someone better for 'her'. But I'd expect her to not have slept with the guy until she split with me though......

btw when I met my girlfriend she was going out with someone. We were friends and ONLY friends until they split. Then we got closer and are now going out.

 

[Yossarian]

Originally posted by: stonecold3169
Women are like parking spots, all the good ones are taken and the rest are handicapped

That's great, I never heard that before