Ever wonder what ppl say about u when ur not around?

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I was out with some friends sunday night and while riding in the car, they started smack talking about this girl I'm vaguely familiar with. They basically called her a fat ugly b*tch.

I was a little taken back since I very seldom comment about other people when they aren't around, especially not that bad.

But to be brutually honest, I wouldn't argue with their assessment of her. . . :Q

 

Anghang

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i wonder sometimes, but i never get too into it...cuz i don't do it....and as much as i'd like to know ppl's honest opinion about me...if they got a problem with me, i expect them to be up front about it, cuz that's how i am and they know this...
 

luv2chill

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you could always pull a jerry lewis/george costanza.... put a tape recorder in a briefcase and leave it behind "accidentally" and listen to it later.

"and then a metallic squink" :D

l2c
 

Kelvrick

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I wonder and I'll get doubly curious when I catch part of it. But, I don't really care.
 

Zim Hosein

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Originally posted by: mrCide
i know they do, but i don't worry about it

OuterSquare, it's just a fact of life, either you deal w/ it, or you spend your time looking for friends who would not say anything negative about you. If you have "true" friends, they will always speak the truth, reguardless if you agree w/ them or not.
 

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Originally posted by: Zim Hosein
Originally posted by: mrCide
i know they do, but i don't worry about it

OuterSquare, it's just a fact of life, either you deal w/ it, or you spend your time looking for friends who would not say anything negative about you. If you have "true" friends, they will always speak the truth, reguardless if you agree w/ them or not.

I know, I found it interesting how two faced people can be? I mean it's not necessarily a bad thing to be two faced since it's a demand that's often placed on us by society, but it's still kind of interesting.

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mrCide

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Originally posted by: OuterSquare
Originally posted by: mrCide
i know they do, but i don't worry about it

It's not a worry but a curiosity.

well, my point was i have no interest/curiosity :) if you asked me 5 years ago i would of told you i cared and worried, but always worrying and feeling crumby kinda ruins you, so i dropped that whole ordeal
 

yobarman

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Originally posted by: amnesiac 2.0
I know that everyone loves me so I'm never afraid of what they say behind my back. :D

this is true for me also. plus i dont really give a crap what people say.