Ever out of friend zone?

[manlymatt83]

Friend of mine for 8 years. We used to sleep with each other, but not anymore.

Now we hang out every day, 4 hours+, sleep "next to each other", she's moving in with me for a few months, we will most likely never be sleeping in our own rooms when that happens, see each other naked all the time, etc. etc. etc....


Anyway out of the friends zone in the future, or is that hopeless?

 

[hypn0tik]

Whip it out

 

[Vegitto]

Just try to make a move and see where it goes.

 

[manlymatt83]

Originally posted by: Vegitto
Just try to make a move and see where it goes.

I do. I make out with her all the time. We were watching TV last night and I just started making out with her. That's easy, but that's not the point.

I want to know if I could ever be out of the friends zone.

 

[Triforceofcourage]

Originally posted by: mjuszczak

Originally posted by: Vegitto
Just try to make a move and see where it goes.

I do. I make out with her all the time. We were watching TV last night and I just started making out with her. That's easy, but that's not the point.

I want to know if I could ever be out of the friends zone.

Grab dem titties

 

[manlymatt83]

Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage

Originally posted by: mjuszczak

Originally posted by: Vegitto
Just try to make a move and see where it goes.

I do. I make out with her all the time. We were watching TV last night and I just started making out with her. That's easy, but that's not the point.

I want to know if I could ever be out of the friends zone.

Grab dem titties

Done. That's not the point. Don't think physical.

 

[Ika]

You call that the friend zone??

 

[tweakmm]

Sounds like you are in the "friend's with benefits" zone. Much much different than the friend zone.

 

[necine]

Make sure there's alcohol involved so you have an excuse.

 

[manlymatt83]

Originally posted by: Aflac
You call that the friend zone??

I get physical action all the time, but I want more in the future with her. Wondering if thats possible. To me, everything else is the "friend zone".

 

[SlitheryDee]

What, do you wanna marry her or something?

 

[manlymatt83]

Originally posted by: SlitheryDee
What, do you wanna marry her or something?

I would.

 

[ArJuN]

Stop complaining.

 

[AbAbber2k]

So you're fvck buddies? Stop being so fvcking ambiguous. No wonder she treats you like a piece of manmeat. If you want her as a GF, do more BF/GF things with her. Fvcking is great, but a relationship usually requires a little more than that.

:roll: @ this thread

 

[tweakmm]

Dude, ask her out.
:roll:

 

[manlymatt83]

Originally posted by: AbAbber2k
So you're fvck buddies? Stop being so fvcking ambiguous. No wonder she treats you like a piece of manmeat. If you want her as a GF, do more BF/GF things with her. Fvcking is great, but a relationship usually requires a little more than that.

:roll: @ this thread

She knows I like her though. In fact, we've had talks about just how much I like her. Never any response from her really.

-Matt

 

[Skunkwourk]

Originally posted by: ArJuN
Stop complaining.

Seconded. At least you know she doesn't think you're ugly. You're already making out with her and still need help moving forward?

EDIT: yeah, what AbAbber2k said, or just Show her this thread.

 

[b0mbrman]

Originally posted by: mjuszczak

Originally posted by: Aflac
You call that the friend zone??

I get physical action all the time, but I want more in the future with her. Wondering if thats possible. To me, everything else is the "friend zone".

While you're having sex with her, start crying

 

[b0mbrman]

On a more serious note, I'm not sure I see how this is a big issue. You've already got most of the hard stuff out of the way.

 

[AbAbber2k]

Originally posted by: mjuszczak

Originally posted by: AbAbber2k
So you're fvck buddies? Stop being so fvcking ambiguous. No wonder she treats you like a piece of manmeat. If you want her as a GF, do more BF/GF things with her. Fvcking is great, but a relationship usually requires a little more than that.

:roll: @ this thread

She knows I like her though. In fact, we've had talks about just how much I like her. Never any response from her really.

-Matt

WTF... don't "talk" about how you feel. Fvcking show her. "Gosh I really like you and I'd like us to invest more in this relationship... emotionally." Fvck that pathetic bullsh1t. You have to ACT. Like I said, if you want her to be your GF start treating her like one and not like your fvck buddy. Ya you can still fvck her, but at least take her somewhere exciting/fun/nice/etc first. Right now you're just a good lay. And chances are, she can find that pretty quick if you drop out of the picture which means... guess what... as soon as she finds someone she can connect with who's also a good lay... you're GONE.

There are a couple different outcomes. a) She'll figure it out and things will go your way. b) She'll admit she just wants have a good time and fvck you... no harm no foul. If b) you keep her around until you find a moisty who's into you and wants more than just your smoked meat log.

Originally posted by: b0mbrman
While you're having sex with her, start crying

:laugh:

 

[ArJuN]

Originally posted by: mjuszczak

Originally posted by: AbAbber2k
So you're fvck buddies? Stop being so fvcking ambiguous. No wonder she treats you like a piece of manmeat. If you want her as a GF, do more BF/GF things with her. Fvcking is great, but a relationship usually requires a little more than that.

:roll: @ this thread

She knows I like her though. In fact, we've had talks about just how much I like her. Never any response from her really.

-Matt

Drop her man. She just uses you for the attention she can't get anywhere else. More of a cuddlebuddy with benefits. Better than nothing I guess, but it turns messy when emotions get involved.

 

[judasmachine]

My fiance and I were like that. We started as friends with benefits, then just friends, now we realize that we are perfectly compatible, and care deeply for each other and we'll be dead, um I mean married by year's end. When we were living together as friends, she was lying across me on the couch, and I just looked down at her, and said the first thing that came to mind, "I love you." It's all been gravy since.

 

[b0mbrman]

Holy crap...

I can tell you the answer, but I hope that you do not go through with it. However, I am fairly certain it will work.


One day, just start treating her like crap.

 

[Semidevil]

if you are right now in the so called 'friend zone' and she is willing to get physical with a just a 'friend,' are you sure you want to get serious with her?

 

[Kadarin]

Just lock her in your parents' bedroom...