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Ever meet someone and think they're great...then you see things you don't like? (LONG)

MichaelD

MichaelD

Lifer
No pics. OK? They would be all over the net by midnight. :roll:

I was on a business trip back in March. Met a very attractive woman. Three years younger than I (same age, in my book), divorced, no kids. Quiet. Unlike me. 😛

I took her out a few times...tried to hit it. Got shot down. The fourth date, I got DONE, correctly. 😎 I loved every minute of it. So, she's not a slut...nice girl. Well-mannered, well-spoken, etc.

We like a LOT of the same things. Music/movies/books/foods.

We spent three weeks together. It was the best time I've had with a woman in many years. 🙂 We talked a lot. Went for walks, talked about our families...all that warm fuzzy stuff. The physical stuff was lovemaking, not "sex." Friggin' awesome. It takes a real woman to beat my ass up one wall of the bedroom and down the other side...nice.

Anyway, we agreed to keep in touch and we have. Email/phone. She's sent me letters and cards. Oh, I'm in South Texas, she's in the "upper Northeast." Not exactly walking distance.

However, all is not rosy. Though she told me she was only part-time with the company and kind of "between places to live" due to her divorce about 9 months ago, it didn't bother me.

The past few weeks, she's lived at her mom's, her dad's, her sister's, her friend's. If not for her cell phone, I'd have no idea how to get ahold of her. She's got a laptop and emails me daily...but never from the same place.

This really turns me off. Unfortunately for her, money is very tight...her job is part-time, etc.

At this point in my life, I want a woman that is SETTLED. Has a STEADY JOB and her OWN place to live.

I like her, but don't like her situation. I hope this makes sense and sorry for the novel. 😱

OK, fire away. Suggestions? Comments? Like you guys need coaxing...😉
 
Wel if you want a woman that is SETTLED. Has a STEADY JOB and her OWN place to live this ain't the one. 🙂
 
we've all been/will be in hard spots in life. Hopefully this is just a bump that shes going to overcome shortly. I wouldnt hold it against her until she starts asking you for money!
 
I am sure you will get lots of praise for hitting it. 😀

Well, that sucks, I guess. I can understand wanting a woman who is settled in life, if you are. I still think you should keep with it, though. Perhaps even let her know that it bothers you. Shrug. You never know how things will turn out.

Just don't offer to let her move in with you. :Q lol
 
Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
we've all been/will be in hard spots in life.  Hopefully this is just a bump that shes going to overcome shortly.  I wouldnt hold it against her until she starts asking you for money!
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Agree w/you on all counts! She asks for money, it's over, quick. :|

I am moving next week. She's talking about "coming to visit" in June. I'm afraid she'll try to move in!
 
"Ever meet someone and think they're great...then you see things you don't like? (LONG)"

Things, as in, a wang? Cause that'd be bad.
 
Souns to me like you found a great chick to spend some years with ... she is waiting to move in with you.
If you are not ready ... too bad. someone else will be.
 
Judging by your summary, you met a guy...but since it seems to be an actual relationship question with an actual woman, I'll just go find another thread to nef in.
 
The fact that you had sex with a woman puts you two steps ahead of 90% of the nerds here. 😀

As for the situation, I would see how long it lasts. As long as she isn't asking you for money, I wouldn't worry about it.

If is 6 months from now and she is still moving all over the place, you might want to reconsider.

But until then, HIT IT! HARD! 😀
 
Gee, for a minute there I thought you were going to mention that she has a cat?

I offer no suggestions until I see a pic.
 
Originally posted by: TheBoyBlunder
Judging by your summary, you met a guy...but since it seems to be an actual relationship question with an actual woman, I'll just go find another thread to nef in.
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HOLY CRAP...you're right! :Q I need to change that!
 
She might be looking for someone who is settled down so that she can settle down.
I woulnd go and like get together with her so fast but I would not shoot her down either.
Go slow... only time will tell what's true about her and whats not.
 
yea, so she moves a lot............but it's not her fault right? Maybe if you keep going out with her and take her in, you will help her settle down..
 
Originally posted by: Pepsei
Gee, for a minute there I thought you were going to mention that she has a cat?

I offer no suggestions until I see a pic.
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She does have a cat. I hate cats. Cats are evil...like children. But when I met her, I didn't have to deal with the pussy to get the OTHER P....
 
Originally posted by: MichaelD
Originally posted by: Pepsei

Gee, for a minute there I thought you were going to mention that she has a cat?



I offer no suggestions until I see a pic.
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She does have a cat. I hate cats. Cats are evil...like children. But when I met her, I didn't have to deal with the pussy to get the OTHER P....
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Ah yes, the olde MichaelD is back. 😀
 
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