blackdogdeek
Lifer
- Mar 14, 2003
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It is VERY difficult for people to admit they've made poor choices in their lives. It is MUCH easier to attribute the success of others to some arbitrary external force.
There can be an element of luck involved when people become successful - someone gets hired because the hiring manager's kids and the candidate's kids are on the same soccer team, and the hiring manager used that as a tie-breaker.
Equality of outcome is on the horizon. Enjoy your spoils while you can.
OP, where is your hard work in not being laid off? You did not specify if you just weren't picked or you actually did make yourself an invaluable asset that they couldn't afford to lay off. That could easily have been luck.