Ever gotten out of the friend zone after a long time stuck in it?

zCypher

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Just curious if any of you have gotten "out" of the friend zone (ie, scored or gotten hooked up with) after being stuck in it.
 

CommCR

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You mean you have always been just friends...or you were something more now downgraded to just friends?

Either way I see two lights at the end of the tunnel :beer: :beer:

Quite possible actualy you may hook up, or she'll give you that lame excuse "I don't want it to ruin our friendship" -Yeah WHAT-ever
 

zCypher

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I am not referring to any situation in my life, I'm jsut curious, cause a lot of people comlpain about being "stuck in the friends zone" with a girl... I have a gf, so I'm not stuck anywhere with anyone - I'm just wondering about this. Just random thoughts popped into my head..
 

anxi80

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yes. started out as friends, hooked up, back to friends, hooked up again...you get the idea...
 

her209

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No such thing as friendship between a guy and a girl because the guy always wants sex.
 

CommCR

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Originally posted by: her209
No such thing as friendship between a guy and a girl because the guy always wants sex.

well maybe some food every now and then too.

:beer:
 

zCypher

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Heh

well, I was friends with my current gf for a long time before ''hooking up'' so to speak.
 

deerslayer

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Yeah. I was friends with a girl for about 1.5 years, then we went out, broke up, went out, broke up, she asked me out again and I kicked her to the curb. What a waste of time.
 

Buttzilla

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they all go psycho and get severe emotional attachments. thats what happened w/ the last one...
 

Pliablemoose

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Lots of times, but it only works if you're really friends, if you're secretly holding out for her, you're screwed...
 

Christoph

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Yes. I was totally into this girl in college, she wanted to be friends. We stayed friends over the years, last year we ended up hooking up. Then she wanted more, but I wasn't into it--realized I had been flirting with her more out of habit than anything else.

So in my case, it took 18 years to get out of the friend zone.
 

kami

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Originally posted by: her209
No such thing as friendship between a guy and a girl because the guy always wants sex.

There are two exceptions:

1. The guy is in denial because he "thinks" he doesn't want this....but deep down the only reason he listens to her boring stories, guy problems, and insignificant rants is because he wants to bang her.
2. The girl is ugly but fun to hang around.