Ever been stalked?

Chrono

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If so, how the fuck do you get rid of the fuckin' stalker? This girl has been stalking me for the past 2 years now. It's annoying as hell.

Backstory:
Last saw her in 1999 after High School. Girl found me on facebook and added me. Talked to her for a bit then this one time she wanted to talk on the phone because she was depressed and etc. and needed someone to talk to. I called her using my cell, which was the biggest mistake in my life.

I thought I got rid of her but she's back!!!!!!
 

nick1985

Lifer
Dec 29, 2002
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Delete and block her on facebook and stop picking up the phone?

*edit*

I never heard of someone complaining of a stalker that they themself called.
 

FoBoT

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Apr 30, 2001
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Talked to her for a bit then this one time she wanted to talk on the phone because she was depressed and etc. and needed someone to talk to. I called her using my cell, which was the biggest mistake in my life.

I thought I got rid of her but she's back!!!!!!

1. break all contact
2. join the military and request duty in Afghanistan
3.
4. profit?
 

Chrono

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Jan 2, 2001
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Trust me. I don't talk to her at all. She just likes calling 5-6 times a day, leaving VM's and messaging me on fb asking why I haven't added her and shit. Are some people this dumb...?
 

nick1985

Lifer
Dec 29, 2002
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Trust me. I don't talk to her at all. She just likes calling 5-6 times a day, leaving VM's and messaging me on fb asking why I haven't added her and shit. Are some people this dumb...?

1. Ask her to stop calling
2. Use the block feature on facebook
3. If 1 doesnt work, see 4.
4. Change your phone #
 

Skitzer

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Mar 20, 2000
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Trust me. I don't talk to her at all. She just likes calling 5-6 times a day, leaving VM's and messaging me on fb asking why I haven't added her and shit. Are some people this dumb...?

Is she any good in bed?
Maybe that's all she really wants?
 

Nik

Lifer
Jun 5, 2006
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If so, how the fuck do you get rid of the fuckin' stalker? This girl has been stalking me for the past 2 years now. It's annoying as hell.

Backstory:
Last saw her in 1999 after High School. Girl found me on facebook and added me. Talked to her for a bit then this one time she wanted to talk on the phone because she was depressed and etc. and needed someone to talk to. I called her using my cell, which was the biggest mistake in my life.

I thought I got rid of her but she's back!!!!!!

Can't you just pray to Jesus to make everything better?
 

Rubycon

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Aug 10, 2005
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If so, how the fuck do you get rid of the fuckin' stalker? This girl has been stalking me for the past 2 years now. It's annoying as hell.

Backstory:
Last saw her in 1999 after High School. Girl found me on facebook and added me. Talked to her for a bit then this one time she wanted to talk on the phone because she was depressed and etc. and needed someone to talk to. I called her using my cell, which was the biggest mistake in my life.

I thought I got rid of her but she's back!!!!!!

Yes I have been stalked. This does not sound serious enough to warrant legal action though. Another thing is it can be prevented. If there is not one part of you that does not want this then you will figure a way to stop it. Most people don't and it will continue.

As long as it does not ruin someone's life by wrecking a family with kids, etc. there is probably no real danger or harm done.
 

ussfletcher

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Apr 16, 2005
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I had an English teacher in High School that a student that had graduated was stalking. They had restraining orders and such filed against him. One day he decided to come to the school, didn't turn out well for him. For the teacher though, she was terrified...
 

Fritzo

Lifer
Jan 3, 2001
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I had a problem with a tall leafy vegetable that was watching my every move.

Yes...I was celery stalked.
 

Bryophyte

Lifer
Apr 25, 2001
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Block her from calling you or change your phone number.

Or you could just tell her that you don't want to be friends anymore. She probably won't hunt you down, kill you, and eat your brains.
 

amdhunter

Lifer
May 19, 2003
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Trust me. I don't talk to her at all. She just likes calling 5-6 times a day, leaving VM's and messaging me on fb asking why I haven't added her and shit. Are some people this dumb...?

Post her number here, we'll take care of it. Is she hot?
 

syrillus

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I know this is ATOT where passive-aggressiveness abides, but perhaps you could just answer one of the 5-6 times she calls you every day, and say "listen, I don't want to be friends, I don't want to talk to you, please stop calling/FB messaging me."
 

Jeeebus

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Aug 29, 2006
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I know this is ATOT where passive-aggressiveness abides, but perhaps you could just answer one of the 5-6 times she calls you every day, and say "listen, I don't want to be friends, I don't want to talk to you, please stop calling/FB messaging me."

that worked out really well in Fatal Attraction and the Oscar winning Swimfan.
 

Regs

Lifer
Aug 9, 2002
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I don't know nik they're some creepy hot girls out there. I know a girl who pretty much treated guys like sperm dispensers who just wanted to have kids.

They're like praying mantissas that chop off the males head after they mated....they just use their good looks to their adavantage.
 

meltdown75

Lifer
Nov 17, 2004
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my ex was stalked, and then her stalker stalked me to get info on her, posing as someone i knew from highschool.

never did resolve who it was. hell, she probably ran off with him/her.
 

moshquerade

No Lifer
Nov 1, 2001
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Ignore her/block her/don't even give her negative attention

If you totally ignore her, she will go away.