English grammar question

CarpeDeo

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Is it grammatically proper to refer to a baby as "it"? Or do the pronouns "he" and "she" always have to be used?

For example: Can I say,

"My baby is four years old. It's going to turn five next month."

or . . .

"That baby is so cute! Is it a boy or a girl?"
 

chrisms

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The second one works because you don't know... but I don't see any reason not to use "he" or "she" if you do know.
 

CarpeDeo

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Originally posted by: chrisms
The second one works because you don't know... but I don't see any reason not to use "he" or "she" if you do know.

So it's just dependent on whether you know or not?

What if it's apparent that it's a girl, but you say something like, "That baby is so cute! It has a little bowtie in her hair!"
 

chrisms

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Originally posted by: CarpeDeo
Originally posted by: chrisms
The second one works because you don't know... but I don't see any reason not to use "he" or "she" if you do know.

So it's just dependent on whether you know or not?

What if it's apparent that it's a girl, but you say something like, "That baby is so cute! It has a little bowtie in her hair!"


That sounds wrong to me because you're using two different words.. it sounds like object #1 ("it") has a little bowtie in the hair of object #2 ("her")