- Oct 3, 2004
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Where do I start... I think I just wasted the last 4 years of my life.
It all started 4 years ago when I had no clue what to major in, so I put down a major that I was encouraged to do by my HS instructors at an engineering program. I was very optimistic for the first couple of years and then things went downhill. I questioned myself everyday what I would do with the degree once I get out.
I had hopes of joining the military because this way I can at least contribute to society while I figure out what I want to do. So I stuck with my new goal and worked very hard to get to that point. To my dismay, 2 months ago I was disqualified over a medical issue and the plan ended just like that. I had to find something new.
My biggest fear set in, I realized I would have to find a job just like everyone else. I was trying to avoid this the entire time. Mindlessly looking for anything that comes my way. (I'm in this stage right now)
I've completed several semesters of Co-op/Intern with a local company. Through this experience I have come to hate engineering even more. The boring CAD work day in and day out that will basically be standard for any entry level position. Overall, I think I'm in a better position experience-wise than 50% of engineering graduates.
I will be graduating this summer with a B.S. in Mechanical Engineering.
Jobs are scarce, money sucks, and I don't enjoy the work.
Anyway, what this all boils down to is if I should try something new. I am single, have no dependents and have no debt.
My current plan is to find a decent job that will meet my monetary needs (40-50k) and work 2-3 years to gain some real world experience. This way I have something to fall back on in case Optometry doesn't work out. If after the 3 years I still feel the same way I do now, I would drop everything and go back to school.
I have come to realize that I don't know what I want to do, but I do enjoy motorsports and cars. So to fund this love, I plan on becoming an Optometrist. This way I still don't know what I want to do, but at least I will make some money and be able to enjoy my spare time.
I would need to borrow money to complete another bachelors degree which would take me at least 2 years. Then I would need another $100k+ for 4 years of Optometry school. I have thought about dentistry as well since their salaries are significantly higher, but I read that optometry is more relaxed and the overall customer atmosphere is easier. You don't have people hating you after they leave with pain.
My question for you all is if you think this is a good idea in the slightest? Has anyone done anything similar? Are you satisfied? What would you do differently?
Should I just scrap engineering and go to school right away and minimize the time lost? I would finish by the time I'm 28-29, 22 currently. Or should I give engineering a chance for 3 years, and if it still doesn't work out, go the same route, but finishing up at 32 or so?
Some of you might think I'm selfish, some of you might think I've wasted an opportunity some people would die for, please try to understand that I am thankful for even being able to complete a college degree. I am just confused.:\
At this point in my life, I just want to help my parents as much as I can. As a first generation immigrant, I long to provide for my family what they deserve and could never have.
There might be some things I left out, so feel free to ask. I just want your opinions/advice. Thank you for taking the time to offer it.
Cliffs: Majored in engineering
Unhappy with choice
Should I go to school for another 6 years (optometry) right now or should give engineering a chance and then decide in 3 years?
It all started 4 years ago when I had no clue what to major in, so I put down a major that I was encouraged to do by my HS instructors at an engineering program. I was very optimistic for the first couple of years and then things went downhill. I questioned myself everyday what I would do with the degree once I get out.
I had hopes of joining the military because this way I can at least contribute to society while I figure out what I want to do. So I stuck with my new goal and worked very hard to get to that point. To my dismay, 2 months ago I was disqualified over a medical issue and the plan ended just like that. I had to find something new.
My biggest fear set in, I realized I would have to find a job just like everyone else. I was trying to avoid this the entire time. Mindlessly looking for anything that comes my way. (I'm in this stage right now)
I've completed several semesters of Co-op/Intern with a local company. Through this experience I have come to hate engineering even more. The boring CAD work day in and day out that will basically be standard for any entry level position. Overall, I think I'm in a better position experience-wise than 50% of engineering graduates.
I will be graduating this summer with a B.S. in Mechanical Engineering.
Jobs are scarce, money sucks, and I don't enjoy the work.
Anyway, what this all boils down to is if I should try something new. I am single, have no dependents and have no debt.
My current plan is to find a decent job that will meet my monetary needs (40-50k) and work 2-3 years to gain some real world experience. This way I have something to fall back on in case Optometry doesn't work out. If after the 3 years I still feel the same way I do now, I would drop everything and go back to school.
I have come to realize that I don't know what I want to do, but I do enjoy motorsports and cars. So to fund this love, I plan on becoming an Optometrist. This way I still don't know what I want to do, but at least I will make some money and be able to enjoy my spare time.
I would need to borrow money to complete another bachelors degree which would take me at least 2 years. Then I would need another $100k+ for 4 years of Optometry school. I have thought about dentistry as well since their salaries are significantly higher, but I read that optometry is more relaxed and the overall customer atmosphere is easier. You don't have people hating you after they leave with pain.
My question for you all is if you think this is a good idea in the slightest? Has anyone done anything similar? Are you satisfied? What would you do differently?
Should I just scrap engineering and go to school right away and minimize the time lost? I would finish by the time I'm 28-29, 22 currently. Or should I give engineering a chance for 3 years, and if it still doesn't work out, go the same route, but finishing up at 32 or so?
Some of you might think I'm selfish, some of you might think I've wasted an opportunity some people would die for, please try to understand that I am thankful for even being able to complete a college degree. I am just confused.:\
At this point in my life, I just want to help my parents as much as I can. As a first generation immigrant, I long to provide for my family what they deserve and could never have.
There might be some things I left out, so feel free to ask. I just want your opinions/advice. Thank you for taking the time to offer it.
Cliffs: Majored in engineering
Unhappy with choice
Should I go to school for another 6 years (optometry) right now or should give engineering a chance and then decide in 3 years?