Empathy for the President

bradly1101

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Many on the left don't have this. It's very, very hard to have empathy for someone who doesn't have it toward you, your ideals, and especially when they have overt hostility toward them. A friend of mine is going through such a rough time, and has so much disrespect for himself that he actively tries to get people to hate him and ignores the fact that his other friends and I are on to his game with no winners. He can't face facts. Which started me thinking of the man at the top.

The game he plays is from both sides. The part of his mind that disrespects himself feeds on the vitriol of the left. He must raise it, make it bigger. Hurt himself with them. It confirms his ideas about himself and the left.

On the right he can feed the other side of his ego with agreement. A war of wanting to be hated and liked.

In my life I have been on the losing side of arguments. I know what it's like. In a gun thread here once I quoted Wayne LaPierre, or so I thought. It turned out that I had quoted a "satire site" that had a little, tiny word at the top I didn't notice, "Satire" - sowing the seeds of division (it wouldn't surprise me now if that was a Russian site). I even put the quote in my signature here. Boy did I have egg on my face! But those guys taught me to check my sources. I learned a valuable lesson.

Despite his wealth and fame, I see a lost child desperately grasping at "reality," which keeps slipping through his fingers. He's actually a lot of things. I'm not sure that anyone on the right thinks of him as an intellectual though because that word is of the left, I put people like Carl Sagan, Neil Degrasse Tyson, or Einstein in that category, not Trump, but I can see his games because I or others I know have played them and lost.
 

5to1baby1in5

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I don't think it has anything to do with empathy.
More like disgust with the poor and everyone else is a tool to be used to better himself.

If you have a different opinion, than him, then you need to be ridiculed into obscurity.
If you agree with him, then you are back into that tool category.
 
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sdifox

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Did you not get the memo that the POTUS is the official punching bag for all the ills of the country?

Having said that Trump takes the cake on creating problems for himself.
 

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I believe you are looking for the word compassion here, perhaps sympathy. Empathy would be sharing something of a person's feelings. In this instance, that's a big ask. I do think we can have compassion, though. And that doesn't mean letting him continue to be President.
 

shortylickens

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I think far too many Republican voters have a very skewed vision of reality today.
He's not just a regular imperfect human trying to do his best in a difficult job.
Thats Obama. In fact thats pretty much every president we've had up until Donald.
This guy is a monster.
I cannot have empathy or sympathy for a monster.
I hate him.
I want the piece of shit out of the White House immediately. I want him replaced with somebody who has a small clue how government works and isnt an evil selfish angry child.
So basically anybody.
 
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I think far too many Republican voters have a very skewed vision of reality today.
He's not just a regular imperfect human trying to do his best in a difficult job.
Thats Obama. In fact thats pretty much every president we've had up until Donald.
This guy is a monster.
I cannot have empathy or sympathy for a monster.
I hate him.
I want the piece of shit out of the White House immediately. I want him replaced with somebody who has a small clue how government works and isnt an evil selfish angry child.
So basically anybody.

Including Pence?
 

Capt Caveman

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Is the OP serious? I'm sure he believes there are some fine people in the Alt Right. And screw people with pre-existing conditions that want health insurance. I'm guessing the OP think's that those that own golf courses and private jets should get tax deductions but not those with student loans.
 

DaveSimmons

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So he's deeply mentally ill and should be removed from office so that he can enter treatment? I think at least 63% of the population would be fine with that. Get better soon, Trump!
 

Hayabusa Rider

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I think far too many Republican voters have a very skewed vision of reality today.
He's not just a regular imperfect human trying to do his best in a difficult job.
Thats Obama. In fact thats pretty much every president we've had up until Donald.
This guy is a monster.
I cannot have empathy or sympathy for a monster.
I hate him.
I want the piece of shit out of the White House immediately. I want him replaced with somebody who has a small clue how government works and isnt an evil selfish angry child.
So basically anybody.

Trump is a person that should never have been allowed to hold a position of authority or power, whether by virtue of politics or wealth. I find him lacking in all aspect of humanity. I would be delighted if Mueller or another agency of the law brings him down and is removed. But at the same time I wonder what was done to him by those who raised him to make Trump that monster. Nature or nurture? Both? I don't know, but while I abhor Trump for his actions I feel pity for anyone that can be so broken in so many ways.

I can't bring myself to hate him though. For me hate is a very strong and passionate emotion that is draining and destructive but I can see the danger in people like Trump and the evil they embrace. I will celebrate his leaving.
 

theeedude

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Trump is a person that should never have been allowed to hold a position of authority or power, whether by virtue of politics or wealth. I find him lacking in all aspect of humanity. I would be delighted if Mueller or another agency of the law brings him down and is removed. But at the same time I wonder what was done to him by those who raised him to make Trump that monster. Nature or nurture? Both? I don't know, but while I abhor Trump for his actions I feel pity for anyone that can be so broken in so many ways.

https://www.politico.com/magazine/s...other-biography-mom-immigrant-scotland-215779

“When I would play with Donald,” says Mark Golding, an early pal, “his father would be around and watch him play. His mom didn’t interact in that way.” That’s the recollection, too, of Lou Droesch, who was buddies with Fred Trump Jr. and knew his kid brother as a nettlesome tag-along. “We rarely saw Mrs. Trump,” he told me, saying she did sometimes give them money to take him to go get some ice cream. “But we did see a lot of the housekeeper.” This distance, according to a former close business associate and friend, is a dynamic that never changed. “Donald was in awe of his father,” this person said, “and very detached from his mother.”
Mommy issues of some sort.