Yeah, but Darktide in 1999 was the place to be.
As for ESO, I played the Beta. Here are my thoughts.
I actually enjoyed it quite a bit. I found that a lot of the non-fighting aspects were fairly deep, especially crafting. The graphics and animations are top notch so I was taken in by the immersion factor. I never made it past DaggerFall, but I did feel like I could wander around and do whatever like a normal ESO game. You could pick up quests and do them if you chose. Or look for flowers. Up to you.
Combat was very combo centered and very easy. I think there was an imbalance between the level of the toons and the level of the mobs in the beta. I hope they adjust this. I was never in any real danger in combat. The only time I ever died was from jumping off a cliff. Combat has never been an ES strong-point. Left to swing, hold left to attack hard, right to block. It was there, just as in Oblivion or Skyrim. And it was just as clunky as in those games as well. It's not Dark Souls, that's for sure. But I did not feel any lag in the movements. Blocking would block. Swinging would swing. So considering the low expectations I had for 'combat' I think ESO did a fine job.
I never tried PvP. Most of the time I was solo and sometimes in small groups. If anything, that could be the biggest problem in ESO. ES is a single-player experience and ESO, in capturing the feel of ES, feels like a SP game with other people running around. So the massively-multiplayer part of it was mostly in the zone chatting.
My biggest gripe, by far, though, was that FemShep (aka Jennifer Hale) voiced just about every female NPC it seemed. After hearing 1,000 hours of FemShep dialog, it was jarring every time I heard her speak. . .
The truth of truths, though, is that I have no time for a MMORPG. I'm a big fan of thoroughly beating the games I play. Play it hardcore, get really good, and then move on. MMORPGs don't suit that style. You need to be stupidly committed to be an excellent player and you need to become socially involved in the game to really succeed. Some people could play it casually, but I know my self; I wouldn't. Therefore I'm going to stay away from this in the end. We're I younger, I think ESO would hold my attention for a long time. I think it is heads-and-tails better than WoW.