Ebay problem - What would you do?

Muse

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A few weeks ago I got the idea to check out doubling the RAM in my everyday desktop computer, Beauty in my sig. It's a Windows 2000 system that had a stick of 512 MB DDR, Samsung Original that cost me about $200 4 1/2 years ago, in September 2002.

So, I go to eBay and find a stick of RAM that looked virtually identical whose auction was closing in 5 hours:

"NO RESERVE" SAMSUNG 512MB DDR 333 MHZ Memory PC2700

Immediately beneath the title for the listing was a summary line that said this:

"NO RESERVE" M368L6423DTM-CB300 512MB DDR Memory PC2700

I based my thinking that this was a good match for my RAM on that summary, because my stick is:

M368L6423DTM-CB3 <-- my stick
M368L6423DTM-CB300 <-- his stick

Granted, they aren't identical, but probably in actuality they are the same RAM. I was concerned because my desktop doubles as an HTPC and people familiar with my HDTV card say that mismatched RAM tends to cause crashes with the card and software (MyHD 120).

Now, at the bottom of the listing is a question and answer that the seller made public and it made me wonder because it referred to a different part number at Samsung's technical pages. However, it was getting close to the end of the auction and I doubted I could get an answer from the seller and anyway, I figured I had to assume that the item summary specification was the correct and specific part description and that the other one was for broader technical details. I bid and won the part, but when it came to me I found out it was this: M368L6423ETN-CB3

I email the seller and ask why and he emails me back saying he doesn't understand the problem and a few minutes later emails again and says he's really embarrased and offers to refund my money. I say that so far the stick seems to work OK in my box, and timings are OK, no crashes so far. I say that I will monitor the situation for a few weeks and if nothing bad happens I will consider the situation OK and keep the stick. I tell him that in any case, I will not leave him negative feedback.

He emails me a couple of days ago and I tell him I had one crash but am uncertain if it means there's a problem with the RAM and will continue to monitor the situation.

Today he sends me an email:

I really would prefer if you return it now and let me close this
transaction out on a good note. If you wait for weeks there is the
possibility that you might damage the merchandise and hand me a loss on
both ends. While it is working I could have it relisted and sold in these
two weeks and you could have purchased the one you really wanted. It just
doesn't serve me any useful purpose to sit and wait for you to conclude two
weeks of testing and still return it at the end. I am trying to be fair and
I expect the same from you.


What would you do? I just composed him an answer, but haven't sent it yet. Is this cool?

Message:
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I think it highly unlikely that the stick of DDR RAM will be damaged by virtue of my testing. I am not handling it. I carefully inserted it into my desktop computer and have no intention of touching it again unless I become aware that there is an incompatibility with my other RAM stick. In that case, I will carefully remove it and send it back to you. If I knew where I could get a match for my former stick (I already posted you the item description, but here it is again:

M3 68L6423DTM-CB3 ) I might well go get it. However, I have found it difficult to find it. I thought your stick was the same part number, and that's why I bought it. Funny thing is, 4 hours before your auction closed, a matched pair of Samsung 512 mb DDR sold on ebay for a good price. I would have bid on it, but I thought your stick would be fine, so I didn't bid.

Look, I don't think you should be nervous. Why don't you just sit tight? You have my money, I have the stick. If I'm happy with it, there should be no problem. If I have a problem I'll let you now before April is done and we can do the refund thing. Why is that bothering you? What is the "loss on both ends" you refer to? What do you mean by that? You are afraid that I will return a damaged RAM stick? Highly unlikely. Why would my running it in my box do it any damage. Seriously, you should be extending ME courtesy here, not I you. It was YOU who made this ridiculous mistake. I don't want a pound of flesh or any of your teeth (I said this because inone of his emails he said "Let me know how you would like to have this resolved without pulling too many teeth."). You should just relax. I think this arrangement entirely fair.
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RichUK

Lifer
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Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: RichUK
So what's your point? :confused:

try reading his last comment before being a douchebag, if thats possible.

I posted what I did, then read his edit which wasn?t visible before, I then subsequently edited my post.

So what?s your problem fool?
 

pontifex

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Originally posted by: RichUK
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: RichUK
So what's your point? :confused:

try reading his last comment before being a douchebag, if thats possible.

I posted what I did, then read his edit which wasn?t visible before, I then subsequently edited my post.

So what?s your problem fool?

either way, its quite obvious that he didn't finish his post. there was no need to act like a douchebag to him. :thumbsup: for editing your post though.
 

Nutdotnet

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Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: RichUK
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: RichUK
So what's your point? :confused:

try reading his last comment before being a douchebag, if thats possible.

I posted what I did, then read his edit which wasn?t visible before, I then subsequently edited my post.

So what?s your problem fool?

either way, its quite obvious that he didn't finish his post. there was no need to act like a douchebag to him. :thumbsup: for editing your post though.

Dude, ATOT wouldn't be ATOT if it wasn't for the incessant douchbaggery that goes on, pretty much constantly.... :D
 

Muse

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OK, thanks for your patience. Please reread the OP. Thanks!!
 

RichUK

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Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: RichUK
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: RichUK
So what's your point? :confused:

try reading his last comment before being a douchebag, if thats possible.

I posted what I did, then read his edit which wasn?t visible before, I then subsequently edited my post.

So what?s your problem fool?


either way, its quite obvious that he didn't finish his post. there was no need to act like a douchebag to him. :thumbsup: for editing your post though.

Was it really?

I didn?t realise you Americans were that thin skinned, because surely what I said couldn?t have been deemed offensive, could it now? :roll:
 

Nutdotnet

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To answer your conundrum OP-

He's in the right. He said he screwed up and has offered you a refund...you need to decide on whether to keep it or send it back for said refund....there's no agreement where you're allowed to keep it for the next few weeks before deciding whether it's going to work or not.

(Unless of course he has a 30-day return policy or something like that).
 

coaster831

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You need to either return it and get a refund or leave him positive feedback right now. He shouldn't be held responsible if the stick goes bad (even if it happens tomorrow) as long he delivered a working (albeit incorrect) product and offered to refund your money.
 

Nutdotnet

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Originally posted by: RichUK
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: RichUK
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: RichUK
So what's your point? :confused:

try reading his last comment before being a douchebag, if thats possible.

I posted what I did, then read his edit which wasn?t visible before, I then subsequently edited my post.

So what?s your problem fool?


either way, its quite obvious that he didn't finish his post. there was no need to act like a douchebag to him. :thumbsup: for editing your post though.

Was it really?

I didn?t realise you Americans were that thin skinned, because surely what I said couldn?t have been deemed offensive, could it now? :roll:

Way to stereotype! Been to the dentist lately???

:D
 

MrBond

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I agree with the seller. You should return it now if you're worried about it not working in the future, that way he's not in limbo.

Alternatively, you could try running Memtest on it overnight and seeing if there are any errors/crashing. Although I'm not sure how intensive that is compared to day-to-day HTPC operation.

When people say "mismatched ram" do they mean PC2100 with PC2700, or are they saying two slightly different sticks (like what you have there) causing problems?
 

purbeast0

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i think that you should tell him you will either keep it now or will return it for your money back now.

if it wasn't going to work properly, you would have noticed it w/in hours of first turning your computer on.

i don't think it's fair for the seller to just wait on your decision after "testing" it out for however long you think is right.
 

RichUK

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Originally posted by: Nutdotnet
Originally posted by: RichUK
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: RichUK
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: RichUK
So what's your point? :confused:

try reading his last comment before being a douchebag, if thats possible.

I posted what I did, then read his edit which wasn?t visible before, I then subsequently edited my post.

So what?s your problem fool?


either way, its quite obvious that he didn't finish his post. there was no need to act like a douchebag to him. :thumbsup: for editing your post though.

Was it really?

I didn?t realise you Americans were that thin skinned, because surely what I said couldn?t have been deemed offensive, could it now? :roll:

Way to stereotype! Been to the dentist lately???

:D

:p
 

newb111

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If I was the seller, I wouldn't want to wait forever for the buyer to decide if he wants it or not. That's time that I could be selling the ram to someone else. There is also a chance that (despite anything you do) the ram could get damaged during that time, and he shouldn't be responsible for that.
 

pontifex

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Originally posted by: RichUK
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: RichUK
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: RichUK
So what's your point? :confused:

try reading his last comment before being a douchebag, if thats possible.

I posted what I did, then read his edit which wasn?t visible before, I then subsequently edited my post.

So what?s your problem fool?


either way, its quite obvious that he didn't finish his post. there was no need to act like a douchebag to him. :thumbsup: for editing your post though.

Was it really?

I didn?t realise you Americans were that thin skinned, because surely what I said couldn?t have been deemed offensive, could it now? :roll:

well lets see. he posts that he has a problem with an ebay auction. what he posts doesn't mention the problem. therefore, its safe to assume that he didn't get to finish posting what he wanted to say.

of course, this IS ATOT and logic tends to fly out the window more so than not, so i guess i really shouldn't be surprised.

it doesn't have anything to do with being thin skinned or not. its common courtesy and respect.

as to the OP: I agree, either decide to keep it or send it back immediately.
 

Muse

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Originally posted by: MrBond

When people say "mismatched ram" do they mean PC2100 with PC2700, or are they saying two slightly different sticks (like what you have there) causing problems?
Well, I don't know what they mean by mismatching.

 

Zolty

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The seller is giving you a perfectly reasonable request, either return it or keep it. I wish all sellers were this understanding.
 

RichUK

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Originally posted by: MrBond
I agree with the seller. You should return it now if you're worried about it not working in the future, that way he's not in limbo.

Alternatively, you could try running Memtest on it overnight and seeing if there are any errors/crashing. Although I'm not sure how intensive that is compared to day-to-day HTPC operation.

When people say "mismatched ram" do they mean PC2100 with PC2700, or are they saying two slightly different sticks (like what you have there) causing problems?

There?s nothing wrong with running two different speeds of RAM, as the BIOS sets the default speed and latency of the two sticks to the worst performing stick.

It?s when people don?t use the same size modules on a single channel that causes implications. Saying that, I?ve never had any problem either way.
 

Sphexi

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If I were the seller I wouldn't be overly happy either. He admitted he made a mistake on the part number, and offered a full refund. You refused that, at that point I would've considered the matter closed. He has a 7 day return policy, and since the RAM is working, after that he'll likely refuse it. I don't like the idea of a seller telling me how long they plan on keeping my merchandise before returning it.
 

Muse

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Originally posted by: purbeast0
i think that you should tell him you will either keep it now or will return it for your money back now.

if it wasn't going to work properly, you would have noticed it w/in hours of first turning your computer on.

i don't think it's fair for the seller to just wait on your decision after "testing" it out for however long you think is right.
OK, I can see this perspective and I'll accept this verdict. Everyone thinks the seller's right here. I did run memtest on the box for 17 hours with both sticks in there and no errors showed up. I have to figure the stick is OK. If I have problems I can sell both sticks and get a matched pair. Thanks everyone for your consideration and help. I'm going to email the seller and tell him I'm cool with the transaction and leave him positive feedback. I do wonder if I should flack him for sending me the wrong part, though. Probably won't because I got burned before with the ridiculous ebay feedback system.
 

WHAMPOM

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Originally posted by: Muse
A few weeks ago I got the idea to check out doubling the RAM in my everyday desktop computer, Beauty in my sig. It's a Windows 2000 system that had a stick of 512 MB DDR, Samsung Original that cost me about $200 4 1/2 years ago, in September 2002.

So, I go to eBay and find a stick of RAM that looked virtually identical whose auction was closing in 5 hours:

"NO RESERVE" SAMSUNG 512MB DDR 333 MHZ Memory PC2700

Immediately beneath the title for the listing was a summary line that said this:

"NO RESERVE" M368L6423DTM-CB300 512MB DDR Memory PC2700

I based my thinking that this was a good match for my RAM on that summary, because my stick is:

M368L6423DTM-CB3 <-- my stick
M368L6423DTM-CB300 <-- his stick

Granted, they aren't identical, but probably in actuality they are the same RAM. I was concerned because my desktop doubles as an HTPC and people familiar with my HDTV card say that mismatched RAM tends to cause crashes with the card and software (MyHD 120).

Now, at the bottom of the listing is a question and answer that the seller made public and it made me wonder because it referred to a different part number at Samsung's technical pages. However, it was getting close to the end of the auction and I doubted I could get an answer from the seller and anyway, I figured I had to assume that the item summary specification was the correct and specific part description and that the other one was for broader technical details. I bid and won the part, but when it came to me I found out it was this: M368L6423ETN-CB3

I email the seller and ask why and he emails me back saying he doesn't understand the problem and a few minutes later emails again and says he's really embarrased and offers to refund my money. I say that so far the stick seems to work OK in my box, and timings are OK, no crashes so far. I say that I will monitor the situation for a few weeks and if nothing bad happens I will consider the situation OK and keep the stick. I tell him that in any case, I will not leave him negative feedback.

He emails me a couple of days ago and I tell him I had one crash but am uncertain if it means there's a problem with the RAM and will continue to monitor the situation.

Today he sends me an email:

I really would prefer if you return it now and let me close this
transaction out on a good note. If you wait for weeks there is the
possibility that you might damage the merchandise and hand me a loss on
both ends. While it is working I could have it relisted and sold in these
two weeks and you could have purchased the one you really wanted. It just
doesn't serve me any useful purpose to sit and wait for you to conclude two
weeks of testing and still return it at the end. I am trying to be fair and
I expect the same from you.


What would you do? I just composed him an answer, but haven't sent it yet. Is this cool?

Message:
- - - -
I think it highly unlikely that the stick of DDR RAM will be damaged by virtue of my testing. I am not handling it. I carefully inserted it into my desktop computer and have no intention of touching it again unless I become aware that there is an incompatibility with my other RAM stick. In that case, I will carefully remove it and send it back to you. If I knew where I could get a match for my former stick (I already posted you the item description, but here it is again:

M3 68L6423DTM-CB3 ) I might well go get it. However, I have found it difficult to find it. I thought your stick was the same part number, and that's why I bought it. Funny thing is, 4 hours before your auction closed, a matched pair of Samsung 512 mb DDR sold on ebay for a good price. I would have bid on it, but I thought your stick would be fine, so I didn't bid.

Look, I don't think you should be nervous. Why don't you just sit tight? You have my money, I have the stick. If I'm happy with it, there should be no problem. If I have a problem I'll let you now before April is done and we can do the refund thing. Why is that bothering you? What is the "loss on both ends" you refer to? What do you mean by that? You are afraid that I will return a damaged RAM stick? Highly unlikely. Why would my running it in my box do it any damage. Seriously, you should be extending ME courtesy here, not I you. It was YOU who made this ridiculous mistake. I don't want a pound of flesh or any of your teeth (I said this because inone of his emails he said "Let me know how you would like to have this resolved without pulling too many teeth."). You should just relax. I think this arrangement entirely fair.
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Looks good enough to keep. Just a different batch number.
 

KK

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I say you keep the ram, it seems to be running good so far. one crash in a week, hell I sneeze at my pc and the damn thing locks up.
 

RichUK

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Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: RichUK
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: RichUK
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: RichUK
So what's your point? :confused:

try reading his last comment before being a douchebag, if thats possible.

I posted what I did, then read his edit which wasn?t visible before, I then subsequently edited my post.

So what?s your problem fool?


either way, its quite obvious that he didn't finish his post. there was no need to act like a douchebag to him. :thumbsup: for editing your post though.

Was it really?

I didn?t realise you Americans were that thin skinned, because surely what I said couldn?t have been deemed offensive, could it now? :roll:

well lets see. he posts that he has a problem with an ebay auction. what he posts doesn't mention the problem. therefore, its safe to assume that he didn't get to finish posting what he wanted to say.

of course, this IS ATOT and logic tends to fly out the window more so than not, so i guess i really shouldn't be surprised.

it doesn't have anything to do with being thin skinned or not. its common courtesy and respect.

as to the OP: I agree, either decide to keep it or send it back immediately.

You make me laugh with your ?common courtesy and respect? waffle. Try rereading your original reply to me, and so fourth practice what you preach

I also saw (for some unknown reason) the OP from a different perspective (forgetting this was OT and not a tech forum).

Also, you need to come down off of that little pedestal and stop looking down on OT as if you?re a prime example of a perfect poster. It?s embarrassing to read.