Unfortunately, it's a part of Ebay. I've even had an Ebay CSR tell me to charge more for shipping to cover fee's.
I think it's perfectly acceptable to pad your shipping somewhat, but when someone charges $20 for UPS Ground and everyone else is charging $8-$10 for Priority Mail for the same item, I think it's pretty flagrant.
if u dont like the S&H in one auction, dont bid in it. go overpay in someone else's auction. now that e-Gay owns GayPal, u can bet the fees will riSe
The whole idea behind heavily padded shipping and handling is to catch someone snoozing and hope that they bid the same on your auction that others are getting and then make even more money because of the padded shipping charge. This is an aweful practice IMO. Expect to get hit with some neutrals and negatives for doing this. Not to mention, you can forget about repeat buyers or good word of mouth.
One of my major pet peeves is with PayPal and Billpoint. They deal almost exclusively with auctions, particularly Ebay, yet they insist on charging us a percentage of the total money transfer and not just the item. You even have to specify that you're using PayPal for an auction, so why not separate the fee from the auction price and the shipping price. At least charge a lower percentage rate for the shipping. They would probably argue that people would exploit this by taking a $100 total charge and splitting it up in $10 for the item and $90 in shipping.
Anyway.. It's just a pet peeve of mine that we pay fees based on the total amount of the auction and shipping and not just on the item that you sell.
Sal