Man, you just described exactly why I'm sticking her with an AF7Pro.
My E6600 is a pretty lame chip, I hit a ceiling around 3.1Ghz (I'm only stable at 3 with 1.4v, don't want to go higher). Even on 1.4v, I get idles around 5-10C higher than ambient, and stress test full loads around 20C higher than ambient (basically, it idles between 20C and 30C depending on the time of year, and it hovers around 40C to 50C under a stress test full load, again depending on the time of year).
60C makes me very, VERY uncomfortable.