Shawn

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stay far away from girls like that. trust me, it's better for you in the long run.
 

BD231

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Originally posted by: iloveme2
stay far away from girls like that. trust me, it's better for you in the long run.

Listen to these words dude, he's right.

Those type of chicks tend to be the ones that don't feel to bad about cutting loose ends if ya catch'ma drift.

PS: I don't mean to be negative, but try taking your feelings out of the picture then ask yourself if you would tolerate a person contradicting there own statements out of obvious consideration knowing full well they got their point across beforehand.
 

MovingTarget

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Gah! is right. It is really difficult to deal with women like that. Believe me, I'm in that same situation as we speak. However, BD231's advice does make a good point. Good luck with your gf...
 

Ime

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Originally posted by: dpopiz
but aren't all girls like this (at least until age 25 or so)?

Unless you have mucho $$$, yep!

I think the problem is: You're looking to settle down.

That's a bad idea, you should play the field and have fun. You can settle down later.

Seriously! As a male, your odds of getting married increase with age.
 

BD231

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Originally posted by: dpopiz
but aren't all girls like this (at least until age 25 or so)?

Yes, they're morons when it comes to making up there minds in relationships.

It really makes me wonder what's going through a ladies mind. Honestly I can't see it as anything other than being overwhelmed by the idea of being with one person for the rest of there lives, as I've seen completely honest girls turn into indecisive bathering idiots on such subjects.

Trust me, if your girl cuts you loose you'll see another side of her and wonder how the hell you missed it.
 

Torghn

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Originally posted by: dpopiz
ok, so it seems that everybody agrees that girls are just like that and there's nothing I can do about it, so my question then is: should I just try not to think about it? I mean when I think every time I bring the subject up, I'm just digging myself into a deeper hole. if I do forget about it and don't talk to her about it, then everything will sort of be fine...except that I'll still be uneasy because she doesn't give me any hard evidence that she has any feelings for me should I try to resist my feelings and take it as casually as she does?

Post a pic and then we'll be able to answer ;)
I'm supprised no one has asked yet.


I'd say it depends on how old you are. If the relationship last long enough, and gets seriouse enough, you'll know it.
 

crisp82

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<Old Preacher Wife> Girls are the Devil, if I catch you near them... </Old Preacher Wife>