first of all, what disc format did you use when you burned your "custom ripped dvd movie"? Did you burn as DVD-Video, or as data? Normally, with stock firmware, NEC drives have a "rip lock" feature, which limits the playback speed of DVD-Video content to something around 2X. (I find it a royal PITA, personally. I can burn discs at 4X, but then I'm stuck waiting for the verify to finish, starting at 2X read speeds.

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Also, the disc could be warped, or thinner than a stock double-layer pressed DVD. Do other burned DVDs, using the same batch of blank media, make the same noise while they are spining in the drive?