Ok let me set this up:
Comp1 is the main system. The one I'm typing on now. C2Duo E6400, Gigabyte 945 mobo, 2GB RAM
Comp2 is the backup system. Athlon 64 X2 4200, BCS 939 pin mobo, forgot the make, 2GB RAM.
Problem number one is I cannot open My Network Places on Comp1, go to Comp2's drive and copy files from there onto Comp1. It won't let me. Gives me an access denied error every time. So I HAVE to copy from 2, using its mouse, to 1. And yes of course I have full file and print sharing turned on on both computers.
Ok, doing another 1.3GB file copy, Comp1's networking is 7% utilization. Comp2's network utilization is 0.31%. Again, Comp1 is the receiver, Comp2 is the sender.