Double POLL: Should I have kept this a secret? Was it wrong for me to Do it?

AccruedExpenditure

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I had a female roommate move in just this year in Feb. Before that we were ok but pretty distant friends... by the end of the 6th week we got to know each other biblically...

This normally wouldn't be bad except two week prior i happened to be talking to my ex about getting back together... She was receptive to the idea but wanted to "do things right" regarding the guy she was currently with. 2 weeks, still nothing. Long story short, for some reason I started to lose my mind and believe that honesty was the best policy when dealing with such situations so I told my ex about it... i mean come on... she was in a relationship (approaching its fifth month) with someone else at the time, and i thought was "single." And yes, the roommate knew I was talking about getting back together with the ex so I thought everything was by the book... Of course this is not how the opposite sex thinks so naturally all hell broke loose...

Funny, the ex and the ex-roommate are good friends now...

And now I don't have a roommate anymore...

oh, and Hell Breaking loose... that was pretty fvcking interesting... LOL
 

chrisms

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Call their sisters. Threeway would make you a god among men, but if you can seperately bang either one of the sisters good work.
 

Evadman

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Originally posted by: chrisms
Call their sisters. Threeway would make you a god among men, but if you can seperately bang either one of the sisters good work.

lmao
 

AccruedExpenditure

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Originally posted by: chrisms
Call their sisters. Threeway would make you a god among men, but if you can seperately bang either one of the sisters good work.

I guess this sums it up eh... I'm offically a jackass.
 

KarenMarie

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i would not worry about having sex with a roomate of the opposite sex.

i would NEVER, EVER, EVER, NEVER telling my ex if i were trying to reconcile.
 

Kadarin

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Originally posted by: KarenMarie
i would not worry about having sex with a roomate of the opposite sex.

i would NEVER, EVER, EVER, NEVER telling my ex if i were trying to reconcile.

:thumbsup:

Jealousy 4tw.
 

shimsham

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im sure the roomie already told the ex and theyre masterminding a plan for your demise. that, and laughing behind your back about your penis.

ahhh....you already told your ex? the scenario still stands.
 

AccruedExpenditure

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Originally posted by: shimsham
im sure the roomie already told the ex and theyre masterminding a plan for your demise. that, and laughing behind your back about your penis.

Isn't this a given...
 

shimsham

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Originally posted by: AccruedExpenditure
Originally posted by: shimsham
im sure the roomie already told the ex and theyre masterminding a plan for your demise. that, and laughing behind your back about your penis.

Isn't this a given...


so I told my ex about it think i mean come on

i read that as "i think", as in you couldnt remember if you did or not.
 

AccruedExpenditure

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Originally posted by: shimsham
Originally posted by: AccruedExpenditure
Originally posted by: shimsham
im sure the roomie already told the ex and theyre masterminding a plan for your demise. that, and laughing behind your back about your penis.

Isn't this a given...


so I told my ex about it think i mean come on

i read that as "i think", as in you couldnt remember if you did or not.

fixed
 

OS

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let me get this straight;

-you have girl roomie
-you boning girl roomie
-you have ex
-you trying to get back ex
-you tell ex you boning girl roomie
-all hell breaks loose
 

ElFenix

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first rule of opposite sex roommate is to never sleep with them
 

Baked

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You had 2 then you lost them both. You're a dumbass. Truth doesn't help anybody, it only hurts.
 

AccruedExpenditure

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Originally posted by: OS
let me get this straight;

-you have girl roomie
-you boning girl roomie
-you have ex
-you trying to get back ex
-you tell ex you boning girl roomie
-all hell breaks loose

pretty much...
 

torpid

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What the... there was no YAGT disclaimer before I clicked the thread, now I come to this thread to find that it's just some YAGT gibberish. I can't decide whether answering the poll is some form of positive reinforcement or not... I guess I'll answer it.

Summarized opinion: Stupid move to have any sort of relations with a roommate, stupid move to want to reconcile with the GF, stupid move to have relations with someone when thinking of reconciling with the GF, stupid move to tell anyone, stupid move to post here about it when you clearly know just about everything was a stupid move... I think you get the idea.
 

Cleaner

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Sex with female roommate = +10 Man point
Attempted Sex with Ex = 0 Man points
Communication with Ex about Sex with roommate = -10 Man points
Result of no sex and no ex or roommate = -100 Man points