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Lifer
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Wait, I think you made a typo:

"I currently study at an elementary school where I met this girl that I really like."
 

krunchykrome

Lifer
Dec 28, 2003
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Originally posted by: importdistributors
Ok, Here is the story...
I currently study at a university where I met this girl that I really like. We have been hanging out for a while at school, calling each other once in a while, and texting eachother frequently on the phone. I send her silly messeges once in a while to see if she likes me or loves me. So I sent her a message talking about some guy that I had a problem with earlier who made threats to kill me when I'm at work. I told here that I can look forward to many hours of work over the weekend, and I told her that if I got shot would you cry? she said yes, but she was questioning why I sent her that message, She then stopped texting me after that even after I attempted to send another messege out. (I didnt wanna seem desprate for a reply so I stopped sending the messages there) Now I remember her always talking about her dad, but I never heard her mention her mom, I am quesitoning if I may have brought out some emotions that she has for her mother when I talked about death? possibly, this is not solid, I am just questioning it. Any advice to mend the matter?

I dont think it had anything to do with her dad. You were just being creepy.
 

DaShen

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Dec 1, 2000
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Bold, but not Smooth, my friend. You should really consider what you tell someone before you do it.

;) I tend to have the same problem to an extent myself. Better just to stop texting stupid things like that. Keep it friendly though.
 

Dacalo

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That is some creepy crap. I would do the same if I was her. Seriously, what kind of question is that? "If I got ran over by a bulldozer and my guts popped out like a zit, would you cry?" So romantic. :lips:
 

slsmnaz

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Mar 13, 2005
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Originally posted by: Todd33
Wow, you sound psycho, no wonder she stopped.

Yep, you may have come on a little too strong.

I send her silly messeges once in a while to see if she likes me or loves me

The above is a little creepy too.
 

skrilla

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Oct 22, 2004
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Originally posted by: importdistributors
Any advice to mend the matter?

Stop being so weird. You are creepy. Plain and simple.

Texting a girl you aren't even with to see if she loves you. Asking her if she would cry if you were shot. It has got nothing to do with here mom or anything.