Doh... i need ideas for the girlfriend....

TallBill

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Shiza! Things have been too physical with my gf as of the last week or two.. i havnt be able to see her much lately... and most of what we've been doing has been in the bedroom :(... i just realized it today and brought it up... she had agreed to it last week but decided not to tell me for fear of hurting me.... anyways.. i need to frickin do something to make up for being a schmoe... :( grrr
 

AreaCode707

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Sep 21, 2001
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Do a 'first-date' night. As if it were your first date, what would you do together then?
 

bigrash

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you should go out more often. try the movies or maybe dinner or something. sometimes even a simple walk in the park or something is kinda cool.

sometimes staying indoor is the same routine, even though it's fun:D. But if you feel like it's messing up your relationship, just go out once in a while
 

TallBill

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uh.. on our first "date" we watched a movie in my living room after eating... then she jumped me...i wasnt even expecting it.. of course... it didnt go past kissing... so.... i guess :D lol... sheet... hmm... im so bad at "going out" or making plans.. im very spontaneous... but..... its hard to be random when its so damn cold out... in the summer i'd just park the car at random places and we'd get out and do whatever....
 

TallBill

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well.. i wont have money to do something really cool till after christmas... im in the process of working/getting a job right now :(
 

DuffmanOhYeah

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Where do you live? Can you take her to a museum or something? Just get out, go and do something, anything.
 

TallBill

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live in chicago.. but i/we/she really dont have time to do a ton of stuff... i only get to see her for a few hours at a time at random times... i need to tell her to plan stuff for us i guess.. i dunno.. i actually enjoy any time i get to spend with her so i dont even care what we do.. blah!
 

dopcombo

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Cook something simple for her.
Like make her a cake or something.

But make sure its a once-in-a-long-while kinda thing...
 

TallBill

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im gonna bake her and her family some brownies and invite her over for a home cooked meal (by me of course) :D