Originally posted by: brxndxn
LOL police intervention.. WTF kind of nanny-man are you that you would call the cops to sort out an argument?
Ya, if I thought she or I would end up physically harming each other, I'd call the cops.. But, we're adult enough to get totally pissed and express it without harming each other physically.
nanny men throw sh1t to prove how tough they are. May even hit a wall and break good old drywall or a partition door. grr grr grrrrr!
The real situation is; if I am with some chick that is not going to leave my place, and is hysterical/nuts....I am calling someone before it's me that's the bad guy. Been there, done that. Nothing makes it clearer than having a wine glass or bottle hurled at you because you are not going to cater to their tantrum.
Also adult enough never entails breaking or lashing out like a toddler.
I may raise my voice, get angry...but if I ever start hitting walls, smashing stuff, kicking an animal, etc I am going to go talk to someone on my mental health plan.
My philosophy is people have their own needs/wants/boundaries. If my lover is outside of mine, there is no harm in admitting that and moving on. Some love shooting up, smoking the night away, living recklessly, swapping partners....there is someone out there for everyone...