Does love grow between a couple that is separated?

[Antoneo]

I was wondering but say a couple (man and a woman) is separated geographically, would their love for each other increase? or would it be more of a "out of sight, out of mind"?

Let's say that the couple becomes separated not because they are having problems in their relationship but more like a job in different cities, or going to different colleges (you get the idea, yeah?). And they are the typical American couple. I would get more specfic (ie. period of time they are separated, distance of separation) but then that would lessen your use of your imagination .

 

[RedRooster]

"Absence makes the heart grow fonder" is bull.
If these two hypothetical people are going to be away for a long time without visits, it just won't work.

 

[Fearlss1]

I think it could actually go both ways..
I mean, take yourself for an example..
Say your gf transfers to another college..
You would began to think,, hrmm I wonder if she is meetign other boys,,
she doesnt call one nite,, and you began to think more.. pretty soon you about give up..
Then you start goign out you meet a nice cute girl now you to begin to talk and you get interested.. Well you hit it off.. Now you do love or really care for the girl that moved but you are scared that you will never see her or you dont see her enuff..
now filp it..
You to saty at home and talk everynight or as much as you 2 can afford..
You keep in touch via email and everything is fine.. You only have one year of school left and then you plan to move down there.
long distance relationships work everyday..
I belive your love coudl grower stronger or less depending on how dedicated you both are and how faithful and caring you are..
lol I must be on some love kick today,,
I bacame a GODLEN MEMBER Virgin in a love topic..
wooo go Fearlss
-=\nate/=-

 

[Fearlss1]

I myself however would never do the long distance thing..
I mean sheit,, You migth as well take sand to the beach,,

I have first person experience with this, I am moving to colorado in less than 2 weeks.. there is this girl here who really cares about me, she is cute in all but COLORADO for cryign out loud.. SKI BUNNIES heheh you think I am goona take snow to the mountain?
I THINK NOT

-=\nate/=-

 

[pdo]

Long distance relationship is a fantasy someone once told me and I wouldn't believe the. I had a 2 years long distance and it would feel very weird and distant once we get together every 6 months and it would take a couple of days to bond and feel normal again but it didn't work in the end.

 

[MaxDepth]

I'm sorry to have to say this, MistaEng, but she's moved on with her life and a loser "web theorist/artist/explorer" with a pitiful goatee named Carl is now shacking up with her. (oops, I mean that hypothetical couple and not you...)

 

[beatniks3]

<< I'm sorry to have to say this, MistaEng, but she's moved on with her life and a loser "web theorist/artist/explorer" with a pitiful goatee named Carl is now shacking up with her. (oops, I mean that hypothetical couple and not you...) >>

--- web theorist...that sounds like the ideal occupation for me...do you have any links?

 

[Antoneo]

hahah web theorist, now thats something new hehe

 

[flyfish]

Nope. It takes a lot of love to be separated.