Depends on how close you were. My grandfather died last August, nice funeral at Arlington National Cemetary, my dad/uncle/grandmother were balling their eyes out. I, who have only seen my grandfather on that side for maybe three weeks total spread across my entire life, didn't shed a tear or feel any desire to really. I was sad, but in a very sympahtetic way and not much for my own sake.
In response to your response to my response... just thought of this - when something sad on a tv show happens, I actually shed some tears. But not for real life people I know. WTF is wrong with me?
Over 150,000 people I do not know die every single day.
I think that sums up my answer to this poll question pretty definitively.
Every time a woman aborts an unborn fetus baby.
Every time a woman aborts an unborn fetus baby.
I have asked myself why I don't get all that sad even when someone relatively close dies... like my grandfather recently. I feel like I should, but don't. Something seems wrong. When I was younger I was always around him. Now my other grandfather is in poor health but I don't have any feelings towards that either. My grandma was on her death bed (cancer) with us surrounding her and my cousins were balling their eyes out. I left early to go make a hockey game. Honestly, it was just because I felt no obligation to be there. Again I feel like this should be wrong. Or a good thing perhaps to save from hurt. It's not like I'm secretly crying afterwards though.
I have asked myself why I don't get all that sad even when someone relatively close dies... like my grandfather recently. I feel like I should, but don't. Something seems wrong. When I was younger I was always around him. Now my other grandfather is in poor health but I don't have any feelings towards that either. My grandma was on her death bed (cancer) with us surrounding her and my cousins were balling their eyes out. I left early to go make a hockey game. Honestly, it was just because I felt no obligation to be there. Again I feel like this should be wrong. Or a good thing perhaps to save from hurt. It's not like I'm secretly crying afterwards though.
I'm sad that this lame**s reply is here and not in the P&N forum where it belongs.
