So I see this all the time in threads. Someone will post a reply and get totally ignored then someone else will post basically exactly the same thing and will get replies. Does it bother you when this happens to you?
I have spent a few days vacationing here and a few folk blip on my radar. You are one of them. I don't remember why at the moment but you doubtless have said things I find intelligent or insightful and this is another example.
What you say here happens to me all the time. One way to look at it of course is that because I say what is true, some other folk are bound to see the same thing too.
Another viewpoint is that there is noting new under the sun and everything has not only been said but gets said many times.
Also, if folk read a thread their thoughts will be triggered by associations and what you have said may trigger thoughts in the later poster he picked up from someone else unconsciously.
There can also always be folk who steal.
And doubtless there are yet other possibilities going on like the fact that the person didn't read the thread and the person responding only read a few posts back.
Does it bother me. I thing it does. I think I even commented recently to somebody who said what I said that I wished I'd thought of that. I didn't get a response though. Hehe. Maybe we should copyright our posts and take people to court.
At any rate I compensate for the oversight and say to myself the replied to somebody else who said what I said because they are afraid of me.
Those of us who know we hate ourselves know that creates emotional needs. Feeling worthless and empty we seek credit and notoriety. I want my post acknowledged, not some other guy's. But strangely, I want the first to say something to also get some credit. This doesn't just apply to me.
Mostly you have to laugh your ass off at being a human.
As to whether it bothers me, it does