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Does it bother women...

...that us guys may well love you and be devoted to you, but you know darn well that when we see a hot woman walk by on the street the first thing on our minds is, "I wonder what she's like in bed". (or something like that)

Not that we'd go do it, but we're thinking it...

I asked Thumper this today over lunch. She said that women generally know we think about sex alot, and so long as we're not obvious about it, she personally doesn't care.

Thoughts?

Hopper
 
I think most women are basically like your Thumper. As long as the guy doesn't get whiplash from turning his head so fast to look at a hot woman, it should be ok, as long as he also doesn't stare for more than 1/100th of a second. 🙂
 
Originally posted by: Slickone
Know why they don't really care? 'cause they do the same thing over other guys. 😉
I don't think that's really true.

She said she does look at guys, but doesn't imagine or desire having sex with them. I look at other hot women and at the very least, would like to include them in a three-way with Thumper. 😉

Hopper
 
Originally posted by: Grasshopper27
Originally posted by: Slickone
Know why they don't really care? 'cause they do the same thing over other guys. 😉
I don't think that's really true.

She said she does look at guys, but doesn't imagine or desire having sex with them. I look at other hot women and at the very least, would like to include them in a three-way with Thumper. 😉

Hopper

Thumper is lying 😉 😀
 
Originally posted by: Grasshopper27
Originally posted by: Slickone
Know why they don't really care? 'cause they do the same thing over other guys. 😉
I don't think that's really true.

She said she does look at guys, but doesn't imagine or desire having sex with them.
Heh...and she was even able to say that with a straight face, obviously!

BTW: That proves my point about them "hiding" better, in case you missed it. 😉
 
Originally posted by: Zim Hosein
Originally posted by: Grasshopper27
She said she does look at guys, but doesn't imagine or desire having sex with them. I look at other hot women and at the very least, would like to include them in a three-way with Thumper. 😉

Hopper
Thumper is lying 😉 😀
LOL!

You calling my fiancé a liar??? 😀

Ok, so maybe she does, I dunno... She claims she doesn't imagine having sex with them, I take her word for it. *shrug*

I do know I wouldn't have a three-way with any of them with her, that would be just creapy. I guess given that, it isn't reasonable to ask her to do that. More a fantasy than anything else I guess, never done it. *shrug*

Hopper
 
yes it bothers the crap out of me. especially if its made vocally. or your head spins 180 degrees. or if your eyes bug WIDE open. its even worse if suggestions are made.

i don't need to know you want to boink every other woman you see on the damn street. i personally do NOT look at guys in that way EVER. and no i'm not lying. i don't look at a guy and wonder "damn i wonder how sex would be" i would go "wow he's kinda cute i wonder if he's nice" and on and on.
 
lol... I'm pretty sure my girlfriend looks at other girls more than I do.

Of course, not in a sexual way.. but.. yeah. 😉
 
Hell,I've been cheated on in a marriage,nothing bothers me,lol,as long as I'm not expected to pick up the tab for their hotel rooms and gifts for their flavor of the month it's all good🙂
 
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Hell,I've been cheated on in a marriage,nothing bothers me,lol,as long as I'm not expected to pick up the tab for their hotel rooms and gifts for their flavor of the month.
*hugs Baff*

There is a world of difference between thinking, "damm, she's hot, I wonder what a three-way with her, my wife, and me would be like", and actually CHEATING on your wife.

There is no comparison. One is innocent fantasy, the other is very bad. I personally love Thumper more than anything, she's my sunshine in the morning. I would never cheat on her, I respect her and love her too much for that.

I'm allowed to enjoy the scenery, so long as I come home for the meal. 😀

Hopper
 
Originally posted by: Grasshopper27
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Hell,I've been cheated on in a marriage,nothing bothers me,lol,as long as I'm not expected to pick up the tab for their hotel rooms and gifts for their flavor of the month.
*hugs Baff*

There is a world of difference between thinking, "damm, she's hot, I wonder what a three-way with her, my wife, and me would be like", and actually CHEATING on your wife.

There is no comparison. One is innocent fantasy, the other is very bad. I personally love Thumper more than anything, she's my sunshine in the morning. I would never cheat on her, I respect her and love her too much for that.

I'm allowed to enjoy the scenery, so long as I come home for the meal. 😀

Hopper


I didn't say there was a comparision,what I said was that after living thru feeling like I was never good enough for a long time,that I try not to sweat the small stuff.
 
It doesn't bother me if mine looks at other "HOT" females. 🙂

I know what to do to hold him close by! 😛

YES!! I do look at other men the same way as guys looks at other women but I think that is natural for both.

I'll turn my head in a minute if I see a nice looking guy...I see NO harm in that for either gender. 😉
 
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I didn't say there was a comparision,what I said was that after living thru feeling like I was never good enough for a long time,that I try not to sweat the small stuff.
Oh, I'm sorry, my bad... Too much flying in the eggbeater, my brains must be all scrambled. 😀

Hey, you got nothing to worry about, you've posted your pics and we all think you're hot! 😛

BTW, got any new pics of you recently?

Hopper
 
Originally posted by: Grasshopper27
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I didn't say there was a comparision,what I said was that after living thru feeling like I was never good enough for a long time,that I try not to sweat the small stuff.
Oh, I'm sorry, my bad... Too much flying in the eggbeater, my brains must be all scrambled. 😀

Hey, you got nothing to worry about, you've posted your pics and we all think you're hot! 😛

BTW, got any new pics of you recently?

Hopper


One positive thing about living thru the worst of times is the relief you feel when it's over and the fact that if you get burned bad enough you don't make the same mistake again.

New pics? nah,been too busy with work related concerns to play much with my stuff at home.
 
Originally posted by: Lady In Red
It doesn't bother me if mine looks at other "HOT" females. 🙂

I know what to do to hold him close by! 😛
Ouch, I'm picturing something Thumper did to me the other day when I noticed a hot pair of twins walking by the table we were sitting at.

It's ok, I was only sore for an hour or so... 😉 I deserved it, if I'm gonna look, she can, well, you know...

YES!! I do look at other men the same way as guys looks at other women but I think that is natural for both.
Oh, she does that sometimes too, but with movie stars and such. I don't mind...

I'll turn my head in a minute if I see a nice looking guy...I see NO harm in that for either gender. 😉
If she wanted to, that doesn't bother me, but I've never caught her doing it and she says she doesn't do it. *shrug*

Hopper
 
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