Does giving someone a back rub = hitting on them?

BigBadBiologist

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OK, so my girlfriend is big into online communities (e.g. Friendster and Myspace) and she met some guy on there that seemed kind of cool so they went out to dinner. Before they went out, I was like "I'll bet you a 30minute massage that he hits on you." And she responds "I'll take you up on that; he knows I have a boyfriend so he won't hit on me." So during the course of the evening he gives her a back rub. I'm saying I deserve my massage.
 

beer

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BTW Why the hell would she out out with a guy if she already has a boyfriend? Those are primarily DATING communities.....watch your badk
 

tennisflip

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Get your massage from your GF then massage that guys face w/your fists for copping a feel from your woman.
 

Arkitech

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Originally posted by: Elemental007
BTW Why the hell would she out out with a guy if she already has a boyfriend? Those are primarily DATING communities.....watch your badk

 

MegaloManiaK

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No way, It's a back rub, its not the same thing as sticking your tounge in the holy of holies....

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Edit: I think you are entitled to the massage. Then run to the hills, i think i would be kinda pissed that some guy gave my GF a back massage. Her going to dinner with a guy who is not a friend from the past is bad enough but letting him touch her is overboard.
 

imported_Pablo

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i don't know about anybody else but if my girlfriend started wanting to meet guys online and go hang out with them, that's a sure sign that she isn't my kind of girl, and she probably is looking for something that i can't give her. But let her lead you around if that's what makes you happy.
 

Sundog

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Originally posted by: Shelly21
Originally posted by: Elemental007
Usually yes.

Would you give a backrub to another guy?

Oh, and dump her too. She's a whore.

Hmmm..... not that I agree with the backrub. But getting a backrub (and nothing more) makes a person a whore. What F$ing planet are you from?:disgust:
 

PanzerIV

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I think that was disrespectful to not only go out with a guy she met on the internet WHILE dating you but let him touch her and give her a back massage! You're either extremely secure in your relationship or getting played like an X-Box.
 

Chadder007

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Originally posted by: PabloMartinez
i don't know about anybody else but if my girlfriend started wanting to meet guys online and go hang out with them, that's a sure sign that she isn't my kind of girl, and she probably is looking for something that i can't give her. But let her lead you around if that's what makes you happy.

werd. She = slut.
 

TuxDave

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Unless this guy was some professional back rubber his occupation came up as a side topic, then maybe he wasn't hitting on her. But in all other cases, you deserve your massage.
 

NFS4

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WTF is with you letting your GF go meet strange, unknown men that she meets on the internet?

You = not right in the head
She = kicked to the curb
 

samgau

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Originally posted by: PanzerIV
I think that was disrespectful to not only go out with a guy she met on the internet WHILE dating you but let him touch her and give her a back massage! You're either extremely secure in your relationship or getting played like an X-Box.

yup
 

Shelly21

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Originally posted by: Sundog
Originally posted by: Shelly21
Originally posted by: Elemental007
Usually yes.

Would you give a backrub to another guy?

Oh, and dump her too. She's a whore.

Hmmm..... not that I agree with the backrub. But getting a backrub (and nothing more) makes a person a whore. What F$ing planet are you from?:disgust:

Why would she go out on a date with another guy when she's already seeing someone? This is not a healthy relationship. She's either a very naive person or a slut. And planet earth is full of adulters.
 

TekChik

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yeah...i dont understand the situation at all, from a girl's point of view.

if i'm dating a guy, i don't need to go out meeting guys from online. i might go out to dinner with a guy i was already friends with before i started dating the current boyfriend, but definitely NOT to meet new guys.

i would ditch the girl....for sure...if she's not cheating on you already, she will. = :brokenheart:
 

Zombie

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lol, forget massage. What I wanna know is why is she out with strange men for dinner?
 

Nitemare

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Was the backrub before or after she had sex with him?

Dude, why are you letting your girlfriend go out with other guys? Not that there is anything wrong with your girlfriend, but 99.5% of all men are dogs