Hey guys, sorry to hear you are having trouble. I've used a couple of these boards, one in a system I have here and one for a customer, and they have both been fine. Both were 1.1 boards. Let me list the configs I've used first...
Customer system:
1.2ghz Tbird @ 1.4ghz (9.5 x 148)
(2) 512mb Crucial PC2100 (regular, unbuffered, in DIMM 1 and 2)
GF4 Ti 4600 @ default speeds (EVGA)
Lite-On 24 x 10 x 40 CDRW
Pioneer 105-S 16X DVD (slot load)
40GB IBM 60GXP (OS)
60GB IBM 60GXP (Storage)
Hercules GTXP Sound
Sparkle 300w PSU
Floppy, F7 Bios
My system:
1800+ @ 2100+ (1.74ghz, 151mhz FSB)
(2) 256mb Crucial PC2100
64mb AIW Radeon 7500 (300/400)
Pioneer 16x DVD (106-S)
80GB Maxtor D740X "L" (OS)
40GB IBM 60GXP (Storage)
Philips Seismic Edge II 5.1 sound
Enermax 431W PSU
Floppy, F7 Bios
On both of these boards, they ran completely stable @ default voltages when the system was not o/c'ed. On my XP system, I have the vcore set @ +10% which gives me ~1.85V actual voltage. I'm using a Alpha 8045 with a 40CFM YS Tech, so temps are fine. 1.85vcore is only .1v above defaults, so I wouldn't worry too much. Above 1.9v it gets a little more touchy. It can run perfectly stable @ 150mhz FSB with only +7.5% in everything but Prime 95. On the customer system, I only needed to crank it to +7.5% for Prime to settle out. That system is only on a 300W PSU and it ran fine @ default speeds and voltages...Prime included. The PSU is a very high quality Sparkle, so that's probably why there are no voltage issues with it. Using a cheaper 300W PSU might cause problems.
As far as memory timings and voltages go I run the default timings and 2.7v on the first system, and I run Top Performance, Ultra, CL2, 1T and 2.7v on my system. The customer system didn't take to kindly to any agressive timings and this is typical of high memory density configurations like 1GB and up. My Crucial runs nicely with all the agressive timings @ 151mhz (302mhz) and scores in the 2100/2100 range in Sandra 2002 Pro.
What exactly is happening on your systems?