so many SD recommendations...
what does SD offer (in terms of meeting my criteria) that LA or SF doesn't?
Fewer idiots, when compared to LA. LA is one big sprawling mess. If you don't pick the right neighborhood, life will suck. Traffic sucks.
Traffic sucks a bit less in San Diego.
Traffic sucks in SF, but there are transit options in the city itself. I live on the Peninsula, so I can drive to the city or take the train. Or take BART.
Today's high is 67. Today's low was around 35 at the lowest (brrr.) It has been ridiculously nice for the past 3 weeks. Early spring indeed. It'll rain again, but it's not nonstop rainy or gloomy like a Portland or Seattle.
SF is right on a fault line. Depending where in LA you are, there's another fault. In the long run, basing your location on a fault line location won't help, because earthquakes always seem to spring from "a previously unknown fault line." I don't freak out until the earthquake starts measuring in the 6's. 5's are good shakes. 4's are "stop moving my chair!" I haven't even felt the 3's lately.