Do your girlfriends or wives ever put you in lose/lose situations?

[erikiksaz]

i can't believe the power that girls have over our minds. they place us into these situations that we can't do anything about. it's like they bought us a premade grave, and all the digging has already been provided. i find this totally unfair (don't give me that life isnt fair bs). i NEVER put her in these types of situations, because i personally know how it feels to be in one. when will she ever learn that it hurts me? the worst part is that when i try to resolve or ask why the girl is mad, i'm usually left talking to myself. i can't stand having my girl mad at me, let alone not being able to fix the problem. there's only one overshadowing problem though. I DON'T KNOW WHAT THE PROBLEM IS, AND I'M FRIKKEN SURE I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING. so she gets mad at me because she's not in the mood of being touched or talked to. how the hell am i supposed to know this? this is totally frustrating and depressing. any help from you guys out there?

 

[Pastore]

Every day for 2 and a half years when I was with my last girlfriend...

 

[mrCide]

Duh.. spent about 3 hours last night trying to talk to my ex.... TRYING..

 

[erikiksaz]

all these problems just make me ask myself over and over again, "is it worth it?"

 

[natto fire]

does this question really need to be asked?

 

[Pastore]

<< &quot;is it worth it?&quot; >>



in high school, i say no...

there are more important thing to worry about, like school...

serious relationships, IMO are for after school...

 

[erikiksaz]

well, i'm pretty sure there's a resounding yes from all yall out there. i'm just wondering if any of you guys have any tips on what i could do to help out with the situation.

 

[nomahe]

<< i'm just wondering if any of you guys have any tips on what i could do to help out with the situation. >>


I would always just go buy a hooker. They're nicer.
Just give her some space and do your own thing. Then she'll get mad at you for ignoring her, but, at least you'll know she wants you around.

 

[erikiksaz]

that sounds good. i guess i shouldn't be calling her anytime soon. i'll let her sort out her issues before i dive back in.

 

[StageLeft]

I know, they like to take their annoyances out. Thankfully I don't get the brunt of this often )

 

[xraymongral]

If the chick is that screwed in the head, she is not worth being with. All she will be good for is sex, and you can always find a screw budy.

 

[rmblam]

I had girlfriend like that once. I left her sh!t out to dry.

Seriously though, communication is &quot;crucial&quot; to a relationship. Let her cool down and then talk about it later. Then discuss how to resolve these types of conflicts. Do this apart from the original &quot;issue&quot;. You need to stand your ground too. Let her know when you consider something an &quot;issue&quot; or not and issue.

I don't understand how people get so bent about the dumbest things. Life is too short to worry about the TOILET SEAT being up or down.

My wife is amazed at how the &quot;typical&quot; woman behaves also. Every time a group of us gets together she always hangs with us guys because the women just &quot;man bash&quot; and b!tch and moan.

I forgot to get her something for sweetest day and that was just fine... Why? Because I get her flowers (or whatever) on ANY day of the month. I don't need a calendar and she knows that. Try that with the &quot;typical&quot; woman.... heh


Find the right woman, be a man, adore her, and everything will work out.

good luck.

 

[Anghang]

if there's a problem, she better be willing to tell me, none of that &quot;you know what's wrong bs&quot;...if she ain't willing to have an open communication relationship, then i'm not willing to have the relationship at all...booty calls is fine with me tho, but after the deed is done..get da fvck out...for the simple reason that if you don't wanna talk openly, i'm not gonna try...so leave...hehe...i know it's blunt and kinda harsh, but that's the way it is...if she ain't gonna put forth an effort to help the relationship grow, i'm not gonna put forth the strength or effort for us both...it's gotta be a two way street, equal flow...

 

[obiwaynekenobi]

seriously dude don't ever consider marrying anyone like that, they will get pissed not talk to you and then make you feel like sh1t. and this is like right int he middle of the night when you just want to sleep but can't even after you've deicded that it's not worth talking about when your tired because your not with it anyway. but your wide awake becuase you feel guilty that she's pissed at you..

Trust me dude, personal experience have taugth me more than I want to know.

 

[Tauren]

Not my fiance. She really is great. We fight like ANY healthy couple, but we can always work things out by talking to each other. It sounds like a communication problem you're having. Sit her down tell her how it makes you feel or you don't stand a chance in the long run.