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Originally posted by: Wallydraigle
I believe that almost all effects have a cause.
You're thinking of it the wrong way. If you believe everything happens for a reason, that includes what YOU decide, as well. So (if you believe this), if you decide to make yourself a better person, fate already knew you were going to make that decision anyway. So if you feel the urge to change it, go ahead. If you change your mind, don't do it. Either way you're not tricking fate, it already knows.Originally posted by: Wadded Beef
it makes me feel so hopeless that we are bound by fate...meaning that no matter what i do it's not going to make a difference...and being brought up in a rather conservative christian household the idea that God has already planned everything from beginning to end, i find it hard to break away from this way of thinking, its very self destructive. you want to change for the better, but what's the point? god has already determined your future, so why make the effort? and i'm aware of the fact that if you don't make an effort nothing good will come of it, but it's just so deeply engrained in my wadded beef brain...in the end i can't shake the idea that all things happen for a reason, for better or worse.
Originally posted by: Wadded Beef
it makes me feel so hopeless that we are bound by fate...meaning that no matter what i do it's not going to make a difference...and being brought up in a rather conservative christian household the idea that God has already planned everything from beginning to end, i find it hard to break away from this way of thinking, its very self destructive. you want to change for the better, but what's the point? god has already determined your future, so why make the effort? and i'm aware of the fact that if you don't make an effort nothing good will come of it, but it's just so deeply engrained in my wadded beef brain...in the end i can't shake the idea that all things happen for a reason, for better or worse.