google your city name and recycling. that's how i found Kansas City area recycling centers.
my fiancee and i recycle everything we can, but it pales in comparison to what got recycled in Ames, IA.
they had a waste processing plant that processed all garbage - it separated out all glass, plastic, and metal recyclables (sp?) and then all combustible materials, which were burned in the power plant. Not only did it provide ~ 15% of the town's power, but it reduced landfill usage by 70-80%, or some such number.
best of all, you threw everything away - no need to deal with recycling. they took care of it for you.
now i have to sort through all of the recycling once every few weeks and then drive down and drop everything off. i suppose i'm doing my part and whatnot, but it is a major PITA, especially when i'm the only one on our block who does it. i wish they would hurry up with the curbside rollout...