Do you, or have you ever, been unable to get it up?

dug777

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I can't imagine the day when that happens (even when i'm so plastered i can barely remember doing it with my gf the next day, it's no problem :p).

It must be a scary/embarrassing experience, or is it just plain irritating?
 

Fullmetal Chocobo

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Yeah. Not that big of a deal though, for me or her. And it wasn't anything permanent either.
Tas.
 

Pepsei

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don't think so, maybe right after, but never tried, you loose interest for a few minutes afterwards.
 

xSauronx

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only once...well it was up, and i was putting the condom on...turns out the fecker had benzocaine or something in it to desensitize; about 7 minutes into it i couldnt feel meh wang =(

that was embarassing. who the hell needs a desensitizer in a rubber? theyre bad enough as they are without that crap.
 

aidanjm

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Originally posted by: dug777
I can't imagine the day when that happens (even when i'm so plastered i can barely remember doing it with my gf the next day, it's no problem :p).

It must be a scary/embarrassing experience, or is it just plain irritating?

no, but a few years ago when I was taking an antidepressant drug (effexor) it became impossible to cum/ have an orgasm (I was still perfectly capable of 'getting it up').. sex dragged on forever, and still I could never get off, usually in the end I just gave up. it was somewhat bizarre an experience. fortunately that side effect went away, after about one month.
 

dug777

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Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: dug777
I can't imagine the day when that happens (even when i'm so plastered i can barely remember doing it with my gf the next day, it's no problem :p).

It must be a scary/embarrassing experience, or is it just plain irritating?

no, but a few years ago when I was taking an antidepressant drug (effexor) it became impossible to cum/ have an orgasm (I was still perfectly capable of 'getting it up').. sex dragged on forever, and still I could never get off, usually in the end I just gave up. it was somewhat bizarre an experience. fortunately that side effect went away, after about one month.

i can't get there when i'm really drunk, tho no probs getting it up...
 

alkemyst

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those that it hasn't happened too haven't been out and about much.

I hope no one is counting a Playboy or poster as a 'date' though.

I have found it fell under a couple things though:

When I was younger more often anxiety (I used to mess around with late 20-30 year old chicks when I was working in banks as a late teen/20ish)

Now if it happens it's usually because I am not in the mood at the time (it's not going to be just sex)

Alcohol or not I can perform, probably because I am used to drinking regularly though. If only some of my dates could handle their's.
 
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Originally posted by: dug777
I can't imagine the day when that happens (even when i'm so plastered i can barely remember doing it with my gf the next day, it's no problem :p).

It must be a scary/embarrassing experience, or is it just plain irritating?

AHHAHAHAA, before I lost my viriginity, I was fooling around with my GF for about 3-4 hours. I lost a load dry humping and seconds later she says she wants to do it. DOH!
 

sonambulo

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only one time but the girl was like 'hell no' and then we went into sixty nine position and i got it up
 

dug777

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i'm surprised no one has offered a more grammatically correct topic title for me yet :Q
 

JulesMaximus

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Nope, I've had problems completing the deed (due entirely to the booze factor) but never had a problem getting it up.
 

JulesMaximus

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Originally posted by: xSauronx
only once...well it was up, and i was putting the condom on...turns out the fecker had benzocaine or something in it to desensitize; about 7 minutes into it i couldnt feel meh wang =(

that was embarassing. who the hell needs a desensitizer in a rubber? theyre bad enough as they are without that crap.

:laugh:MAO!!!
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Nope, I've had problems completing the deed (due entirely to the booze factor) but never had a problem getting it up.

There is a fine line in staying power and it just ain't happening ;). Some chicks like marathons, but most I found after 15mins (just the sex part) don't want it, even the multiple hitters. They want you to switch to the softer deal. :p

 

moshquerade

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Nov 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Nope, I've had problems completing the deed (due entirely to the booze factor) but never had a problem getting it up.

There is a fine line in staying power and it just ain't happening ;). Some chicks like marathons, but most I found after 15mins (just the sex part) don't want it, even the multiple hitters. They want you to switch to the softer deal. :p
are you saying this: that after 15 minutes most chicks you've been with don't want anymore sex?