Do you keep in touch with your ex's?

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MommysLittleMonster

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No, I dont. None of them. I feel like if you still keep them around or keep in touch with them, you might never get over them 100% and it will only hold you back a little bit. I just broke up with my girlfriend (now ex) last Monday. And I wont ever speak to her or see her again. You just have to move on.
 

Sentrosi2121

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I moved out of my home state. Unless they fly out to Upstate NY for a conference, see me standing in a line and realize it is me, chances are probably nil that I'll ever see my ex's again.

Besides, my wife might talk to them...and that's something you want to avoid completely.
 

shilala

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To keep in touch would be defeating the object of making them ex's.
They're ex's damn good reason. It's because I didn't want to be in touch with them. :D
 

Originally posted by: toekramp
Just curious :)
Depending upon the nature of the relationship.... I generally do try to keep in touch, but you know it takes two. I don't have time for one-sided relationships. Once I make an effort, if the person doesn't show interest then I just let it go because I get the message.
 

yhelothar

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Yeah. I like to mess with them after I break up, when I pretend to be friends..
she kept trying to defend herself because she got dumped.
Then our post relationship friendship ended when I said.. you're either a slut or a liar. :D
 

RelaxTheMind

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nope... depends on circumstances of course for me. Keeping in touch wtih ex's is band news in most cases.
 

pclstyle

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Originally posted by: toekramp
Originally posted by: Xionide
FVCK NO! I end a relationship the way all should be ended. Waving my middle finger while pelvic thrusting screaming "YOU AINT GETTIN NONE OF THIS NO MORE BITCH!"


does he ever come crawlin' back, begging to once again be the bottom?

lol

 

Siddhartha

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"Do you keep in touch with your ex's?"

From experience, I have found it is better for everyone that old lovers fade away and stay away.
 

tami

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Nov 14, 2004
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i am a female, and yes, i do.

but lately, i'm seeing that a lot of them are useless beings of society.
 

Toasthead

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my ex from 12 years ago just contacted via email just two weeks ago. She lives like 2 miles from me with her wife and two kids. Very spooky.

 

deejayshakur

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are the people who voted 'no' also the ones who hate it when or won't allow future bf/gfs to keep in contact with their exes?