do you handle stress well?

skim milk

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I can't handle it well.... mentally it deteriorates my confidence.. and it starts deteriorating my physical health

my face is aging with bags and lines.. I don't have young cute boyish look anymore :/
 

MichaelD

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Yes, dammit! I handle it JUST FINE, thank you...I'm fine. No problems. Stop staring at me...I'll finish the project on time! I don't need you standing over my shoulder! Yes, I know I've got only an hour left, but I'll make it...sheesh...leave me alone!

I need more coffee.
 
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Lola

I will be honest, in many situations i am ok, but that has to do with work. With family/personal life, I do not handle it well at all.
 

acemcmac

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I'm usually fine. Trying to graduate, breaking up with my girlfriend of two years, securing my first job out of college and closing on my first house simultaneously uncovered a stress-triggered auto-immune disorder however. Apparantly, I'm so hardcore that when I get really amped up, my immune system might get impatient and start attacking itself.
 

Exterous

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With most issues about work/school/friends I handle it well - relationships not nearly as well, but i wouldn't say I handle stress badly. The two areas I could improve on are dwelling on things I can change/control and dealing with incompetance at work <- That will probably give me a heart attack one of these days
 

Manuwell

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Originally posted by: acemcmac
I'm usually fine. Trying to graduate, breaking up with my girlfriend of two years, securing my first job out of college and closing on my first house simultaneously uncovered a stress-triggered auto-immune disorder however. Apparantly, I'm so hardcore that when I get really amped up, my immune system might get impatient and start attacking itself.

You have Lupus ?
 

irishScott

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On the whole, yeah. That's not to say I won't feel extremely guilty if I fail at something, but I get little or no stress during the actual assignment. Personal matters are another story...
 

pontifex

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nope
depends on what you mean? outwardly, i don't really tensd to show it but inside i'm freaking out.

actually, i have problems with showing emotions or telling people how i feel. i could be super pissed off but depending on who asks how i'm doing. i'll just say fine.

i have that problem with co-workers and my bosses.
 

sash1

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I've always tended to deal with stress quite well. Though I'd prefer if my life would be a little less stressful, because it always is. But I always handle it well and don't let it affect me.
 

fire400

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excercise, sleep, perform something artistic, last but not least, spend time with friends and family

many people forget that stress exists in everyone's lives at different times. don't become a robot.
 

iRONic

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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
I will be honest, in many situations i am ok, but that has to do with work. With family/personal life, I do not handle it well at all.

Ditto.
 

KillerAngel

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Originally posted by: acemcmac
I'm usually fine. Trying to graduate, breaking up with my girlfriend of two years, securing my first job out of college and closing on my first house simultaneously uncovered a stress-triggered auto-immune disorder however. Apparantly, I'm so hardcore that when I get really amped up, my immune system might get impatient and start attacking itself.


Do go on! I'm very interested in hearing about this; I have to wonder if I have something similar myself.
 

kingtas

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Depends on the stressor.

As a former EMT-I, I always felt comfortable with that (can't even say it was stressing, really). Other stress physically drains me.