do you get turned off by some women who are too aggressive?

dolph

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much as i've always thought i'd like women to pursue as much as men do, it's turned out that if i'm not way into them, i'm immediately turned off if they put it on too strong. it's sad: i'll have some small amount of interest in a girl, she'll flip it around and multiply it times 10, and i'm like... ok, nice talking to you. any thoughts?
 

krunchykrome

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I actually like shy quiet girls. The loud hot ones are great too, but Im usually not interested in them relationship-wise.
 

Kadarin

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Let's put it this way: The thought of a threesome with Venus and Serena Williams does NOT turn me on.
 

Hammyton

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Originally posted by: dolph
much as i've always thought i'd like women to pursue as much as men do, it's turned out that if i'm not way into them, i'm immediately turned off if they put it on too strong. it's sad: i'll have some small amount of interest in a girl, she'll flip it around and multiply it times 10, and i'm like... ok, nice talking to you. any thoughts?

Personally sometimes if I am interested in a girl I will be too shy or not aggressive enough to maximize my chances at hooking up with her.... so sometimes it works out better if the girl is more aggressive (also it tends to show decisivenss and boldness, which I admire in girls :p).
 

konakona

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hmm... i dont like when they are too shy, but i guess its better than obnoxious and cocky. a friend of mine used to have a gf like that and that was a loyal pain in the ass for everyone around him including me to try not to do any damage to their relationship >_<
 

dudeman007

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The best way to tell if a girl would make a great gf is if you would actually WANT to talk to her. If you are a country boy and your gf likes rap, whats the point. So if you're loud, you like it loud. Me myself, I guess like everyone else, i'm in between. Can't be the boss, but can't be mute.
 

Nebor

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Originally posted by: dudeman007
The best way to tell if a girl would make a great gf is if you would actually WANT to talk to her. If you are a country boy and your gf likes rap, whats the point. So if you're loud, you like it loud. Me myself, I guess like everyone else, i'm in between. Can't be the boss, but can't be mute.

STFU, I'm your boss. :p
 

kenshorin

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Hells no. I love loud, aggressive women who know what they want. It makes life easier. Although, they tend to make for shoddy relationships because they are usually the crazy ones too.

If they are fat, I am turned off by the fat, not the aggressive.
 

GTaudiophile

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Originally posted by: krunchykrome
I actually like shy quiet girls. The loud hot ones are great too, but Im usually not interested in them relationship-wise.

Agreed!

If she is too eager too fast, that is a turn off.
 

cronos

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i don't like being the one who initiates everything, but if she's extremely aggressive then yes, it would be a turn-off.
 

y2kc

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I've always been turned off by overly aggressive women... have absolutely no interest in them. Back when my friends and I used to bar-hop, they were quite amazed how I would shoot overly aggressive chicks down, no matter how good looking they were. I guess I feel the need to be "the man" in the relationship. Overly aggressive chicks tend to want to run things when\if you pursue a relationship. My virginity was prolonged because I turned a couple of "mannish-chicks" down.
 

Shockwave

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Originally posted by: dolph
much as i've always thought i'd like women to pursue as much as men do, it's turned out that if i'm not way into them, i'm immediately turned off if they put it on too strong. it's sad: i'll have some small amount of interest in a girl, she'll flip it around and multiply it times 10, and i'm like... ok, nice talking to you. any thoughts?

Turn in your man card at the door.
 

Shockwave

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My wife is sexiest when she's aggresive. As a redhead, sometimes shes VERY aggresive. Its just so fvckin sexy!
Hell, ask M4H. I was chattin with him one day, the wife comes out and sits on my lap and starts nibblin on my ear. I swear it wasnt 1 minute later and my WOOHAA was in her hand! Needless to say, M4H was put on hold for teh sexy nekkid redhead......
I :heart: my wife :D