Do you do what you do just for you?

TridenT

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I think most people are lying when they say that they do [whatever] just for their own personal [whatever] when in relation to their job/career/stuff-that-usually-isn't-just-for-them(aka non-fap habits).

So, ATOT. Do you go to school, work your job, and all that shit just for yourself or do you do it to try to impress others or some other alternative motive? Maybe the "doing it for themselves" thing is really the whole like satisfaction someone gets from impressing others? I don' really know...

Just wonderin'.
 

guyver01

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So, ATOT. Do you go to school, work your job, and all that shit just for yourself


yes.

anyone who says they go to school, or work, for someone else... needs to grow a pair and learn to think for themselves.

i work.. to make myself a better person
i work.. because if i didn't, i'd be bored shitless
i work.. so i can afford the shit i want

in the end... you only have yourself... so if you're doing something to make someone else happy... in the end.. you're a fool.
 

Hyperlite

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in the end... you only have yourself... so if you're doing something to make someone else happy... in the end.. you're a fool.

within reason, this. But i enjoy helping people, and i love my girlfriend and my family, so i often don't need to think twice about doing things for them. i work hard in school facilitate my one day being able to comfortably enable and support the family i will have...
 

TridenT

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yes.

anyone who says they go to school, or work, for someone else... needs to grow a pair and learn to think for themselves.

i work.. to make myself a better person
i work.. because if i didn't, i'd be bored shitless
i work.. so i can afford the shit i want

in the end... you only have yourself... so if you're doing something to make someone else happy... in the end.. you're a fool.

You sir, are the fool. To think that you are the only person in this universe that matters and that you should do whatever you want to please your own massive "I am the universe" ego is truly the foolish attitude to have acquired over your pathetic lifespan.
 

PieIsAwesome

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Trident thread? Is he such a successful troll that we now reference him in thread tags expecting the thread to receive more attention?

EDIT: NVM, didn't notice who the OP was, it seems this really IS a trident thread.
 
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TridenT

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yes.

anyone who says they go to school, or work, for someone else... needs to grow a pair and learn to think for themselves.

i work.. to make myself a better person
i work.. because if i didn't, i'd be bored shitless
i work.. so i can afford the shit i want

in the end... you only have yourself... so if you're doing something to make someone else happy... in the end.. you're a fool.

You sir, are the fool. To think that you are the only person in this universe that matters and that you should do whatever you want to please your own massive "I am the universe" ego is truly the foolish attitude to have acquired over your pathetic lifespan.
 

PhoKingGuy

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You sir, are the fool. To think that you are the only person in this universe that matters and that you should do whatever you want to please your own massive "I am the universe" ego is truly the foolish attitude to have acquired over your pathetic lifespan.

Why are you so fucking weird. You're like that weird ass loser in my dorm freshman year who showered once a month and had like nude gay anime as his computer wallpaper
 

mcurphy

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You sir, are the fool. To think that you are the only person in this universe that matters and that you should do whatever you want to please your own massive "I am the universe" ego is truly the foolish attitude to have acquired over your pathetic lifespan.

Seriously? You're bashing a reply to your thread question?

Idiot.
 

guyver01

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To think that you are the only person in this universe that matters .

in the end... this is the truth... you are the only one that matters.

you'll find this out in a few years, when you leave home, move away, and don't suckle the teet that gave you birth anymore.

In the end... the only person you can blame for your own success, or failure... is yourself.

Ergo... you should do whatever you do... for yourself.

If you go out to the store... and want to buy a ferrari.. and you have the money for it... DO IT...

You cannot take it with you when you go... so don't try to.
 

melek-taus

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actually guyver is right

As i can say these things

i work to help my sick wife
i work to pay for our house
i work to give my wife everything she wants and needs.

I do this. But i do this for myself as i want to do it. Its not like she asks me to do so. But i want to do it. So i do it for myself as i think this way.

But if i didnt have a wife i would say.

I work cuz im bored
I work to spend cash
I work to make me feel better.

Even having a wife if i think about it. This is the main reason why i work. I wont work for anyone else as that means ur not behind the decision. And who could enjoy work if its not ur decision but ur doing it for someone else.

People who do things for others should think about the reason why they do it. As they will find out they do it for themselfs but they dont want to admit it.


And btw why are people who do things for themselfs egos. Who would work just to make someone else happy. If ur not happy there is no point in it. Guyver gives some drastic examples but still its the truth. If u want something then go for it. If u didnt go for it, it means u didnt really want it.

U should live ur life for urself not for someone else. U can live together with someone else and make ur life hers or his but in the end its still ur live and not someone elses. Its ur decision. And if ur not man enough to buckle up and stand behind ur decisions and say that u do what u do for urself. then ur not being honest to urself.


EDIT: typo whife = wife lol
 
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BoomerD

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WTF is a "whife?"

I do what I do for me and mine.

No altrusitic bullshit, no philantropic bullshit...

I take care of my own...and don't give a shit about the rest.
 

dabuddha

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yes.

anyone who says they go to school, or work, for someone else... needs to grow a pair and learn to think for themselves.

i work.. to make myself a better person
i work.. because if i didn't, i'd be bored shitless
i work.. so i can afford the shit i want

in the end... you only have yourself... so if you're doing something to make someone else happy... in the end.. you're a fool.

That's retarded thinking. I work solely to support my family. If I was able to support my family w/o working, I wouldn't be working :D
 

nerp

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Can't wait to read the stupid threads you make after taking philosophy 101 in college, Trident
 

KeithTalent

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I'm not really sure I udnerstand the question. I work to pay bills and to allow me to do other things in my life. Who else would I be working for?

KT
 

illusion88

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I work as a ski instructor because I enjoy the job and I make decent money doing it. It's also out of neccessity, I need a job so I can pay for the things I want. This is all for me. I enjoy the work, I get paid to do it, I take the money I earn and buy things for me. I don't support anyone else.... so yup. All for me :)

P.S. The only ones I try to impress with this are cuties at the bar ,"Hell yeah I'm a professional skier/athlete you should totally come to my after party" haha
 

destrekor

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me and mine first

though, soon, "mine" will include the country. Ergo, I do it for you.

Wait... aww goddammit what have I signed up for.
 

InflatableBuddha

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WTF is a "whife?"

I do what I do for me and mine.

No altrusitic bullshit, no philantropic bullshit...

I take care of my own...and don't give a shit about the rest.

While I work for myself, to reach my own goals, I do gain satisfaction from helping others.

I hope to one day have enough resources (time, finances) to give back to others. Even if it's to gain a selfish feeling of satisfaction (i.e. not altruistic), I've still helped others so everybody wins. Philanthropy FTW.
 

Saga

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Used to. Have been living for years with a terminal illness now though so most of what I do is to leave whatever I can for my family. Most would probably just blow everything and see the world in my case, I guess. I'm satisfied with other goals.
 

FuzzyDunlop

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wasnt it Frued who said that everything anybody does, whether they think it or not, or they intend it or not, is for their own financial or sexual satisfaction?
So, yes, everything i do is for me, in one way or another.
 

ConstipatedVigilante

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I go to school for two reasons:

1. I want to learn the stuff and make some good friends
2. My parents have given me every opportunity and the least I can do is take advantage of it.