Do you dance when you go out?

[Pyxis]

This question is mostly for guys.

I'm just wondering when you go to a bar or whatever do you usually dance.

On Saturday I went to a nightclub with this one girl that I like (but we're not going out, yet

Anyways I have never danced before in my life and before Saturday I thought I never would. I'm surprised I even tried to. I didn't even have to have a drink or anything. Only reason I did dance was because this girl loves to dance. She goes crazy when she dances, shakes her @ss like no other (I like).

I was dancing OK but not real good or anything. We were doing that freak dancing thing. I was most uhm, "comfortable", doing that.

It was alright until my cousin came about an hour later, and when he saw me dancing he pointed and laughed. That just pissed me off and I didn't dance after that. Took me about a half hour to actually get the courage up to go dancing and then he goes and does that.
(I beat his @ss the next day btw)

I don't know if I want to try dancing again or not. She said not to listen to my cousin but I don't know if she was just saying that to be nice.

I would have probably danced better if I had a drink or two but I didn't have my i.d on me.

So do people dance better with a little practice or is it if you suck at it the first time your hopeless?

Damn I was just going to ask a simple question but it turned into a long post.

 

[minendo]

*Glances at skin*. White.

Can't dance, but put a few drinks in me and I become quite the dancer.

 

[xyion]

I probably suck at dancing, but, when I start to dance, I defiantly don?t care.

 

[isasir]

Up until age 16 or so, you'd never find me on the dance floor. Around the time I went to college, and at least looked old enough to get into clubs, I started to learn to dance. Now, at 23, I'm at the point where even a couple of weeks ago, co-workers at my office were still bringing up how I was the Man on the dance floor at last year's holiday party. Being able to dance is one of the main edge's I got over other guys when I'm at a club trying to hook up.

 

[flyfish]

It depends. If I'm"into it", then yes. Just move your hips and shoulders, bend at the knees, and don't ever, EVER, raise your hands over your head!

 

[tecumseh]

I've gotten a little older cause I don't go out bar hopping like I used to. But to get ass, U HAVE TO DANCE!! Your chances increase 100% when you go out on that dance floor and just have a good time. Believe me, the guys that sit at the bar, against the wall and in the crowd are not getting ass. Girls will pretty much ignore you, unless you bump and grind. You don't have to go nuts and make an ass out of yourself, but just have a good time. Girls like that. I have hooked up with lots of hotties cause i was grinding my ass off (just make sure she doesn't have a boy friend) Get some drinks in you and get out there and have a good time. Also, don't pay any attention to your cousin. When he's sitting there like wall paper, you'll be hooking up! No lie =)

Also, I dance pretty good (or i used to anyway). I never really practiced, but i never made an ass out of myself either. Also, one time I won 50 bucks and a bottle of wine in a dance contest before. The girl I got hooked up with was exposing her cheast =) Maybe that's why we won. But it all happened because I just did it!!! I thought I was going to score that night, but she turned out to be some Jesus freak.. We hooked up though, but damn everyone swore that I was going to get laid that night! =(


Tip: If you see a pretty girl at a bar and she looks at you. Immediately go say hi, because if you don't and wait until later you had allready lost her. Guys are like vultures and if you don't take advatage of the situation at that moment than she is allready gone home with another guy. It's happened to me a lot. It sucks being shy =(

 

[AreaCode707]

I don't dance. Period. Never have, never will. The one exception would be if my boyfriend really wanted me to, then I probably would.

 

[AmazonRasta]

I dance - but only slow dance. I can't dance fast for some reason. I've tried, but then again, I'm white .

But I've had many o' girls tell me how great I dance when I slow dance. LOL, I know it's not THAT hard to slow dance, but women seem to like the way I do.

 

[cdan]

Only if I get into the music.

 

[arigato]

I will dance if I go to a club for that reason, if it is a bar probably not.

 

[Pyxis]

Bump

 

[AzAbyss]

<< *Glances at skin*. White.

Can't dance, but put a few drinks in me and I become quite the dancer. >>



Ditto

-Az

 

[TheKub]

I have no rhythm... :frown: and my gf is a dancer... As long as Im holding/touching her I can just leech her rhythm and fake it..

 

[HamSupLo]

do the running man

 

[LethalWolfe]

<< I have no rhythm... :frown: and my gf is a dancer... As long as Im holding/touching her I can just leech her rhythm and fake it.. >>



LOL, I don't think I could have said it better myself.

I only dance under 2 conditions, First I like the vibe of the club and the music. Second, I'm drinking. On rare nights where the music and the vibe are perfect I can dance w/o needing a buzz to get me goin', but that rarely happends. I stay away from the trendy/meat market clubs though. Too much bullsh|t there.


Lethal

 

[techweenie]

It's just about shaking your butt. Shake the butt, and drink, then it seems like every woman wants you... I've gone to clubs and danced till 8:30 in the morning. Like anything, you get better the more you do it. I wouldn't be worried about someone laughing at you, the import thing is to have fun.

 

[prodigy]

What TheKub and LethalWolfe said.

 

[Burnt]

*Glances at skin*. White.
Can't dance, but put a few drinks in me and I become quite the dancer.

 

[DanJ]

A few drinks and I think I can dance....lol

 

[cyclistca]

Only if there's music.

Yes I'm one of those rare guys that likes to dance. To bad I suck at it. I will however only dance to music that I like. If I'm not crazy about a song I will sit it out.

 

[MajesticMoose]

if you got me sufficiently drunk, i'd probably do just about anything. but then i don't drink so i guess we'll never be seeing me dance.

m00se

 

[j0lly]

Of course.

 

[Ns1]

Yeah, I dance, alot, but it takes a while...

First you gotta grow balls(no offense) and realize that dancing is about shaking your ass the way the music compels you to, not about doing what everybody else thinks you should be doing

Then you just gotta do it alot and you end up developing your own "style"

Took me a good 9 months and alot of er substances to get to a point where I can go out and not give a damn about what other people think

It's really just you gotta shed that "What other people think of me" attitude

Hell most of the time the attitude should be "well I'm out here dancing and your sitting around doing nothing, so stfu"

But hey, if you're freaking a girl, then kudos to you =)

 

[FuZoR]

<< I have no rhythm... >>



haha yup.

 

[TheBlondOne]

HA! Yeah, RIGHT. I can NOT dance. The only time I DO dance is to entertain my roommates. (Sarah trying to dance like the chicks from Coyote Ugly is VERY funny.)

So, not on your LIFE!




--Sarah