Do you believe in love at first sight?

Yeeny

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My friend and I were discussing this one day, and I said no. I think you have to know someone to truly fall in love with them, otherwise, its just a very intense attraction. He says I am a negative person in how I think, and that love at first sight is real.

But how do you love someone you don't really know? Ideas?
 
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I agree. "Love at first sight" is really a female way of saying "I want to boink the hell out of you until both our crotches are black and blue" ;) :D:D:D
 

Eli

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It is, indeed, just an intense attraction. That doesen't mean the feelings aren't real, though.

With my girlfriend and I, it wasn't exactly love at first sight, but it was close. We were dating within 24 hours of meeting eachother.. And nobody even popped the question, it just happened.. lol
 

Yeeny

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Originally posted by: Eli
It is, indeed, just an intense attraction. That doesen't mean the feelings aren't real, though.

With my girlfriend and I, it wasn't exactly love at first sight, but it was close. We were dating within 24 hours of meeting eachother.. And nobody even popped the question, it just happened.. lol

Exactly, thats how I see it. I think it CAN become love quickly, once you start to get to know someone. But lust can do funny things to the heart (and other areas of the body ;)) and make you think you feel differently than you do. Thats why I always wait and see before jumping in the sack with someone. :p
 

MichaelD

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Originally posted by: Eli
It is, indeed, just an intense attraction. That doesen't mean the feelings aren't real, though.

With my girlfriend and I, it wasn't exactly love at first sight, but it was close. We were dating within 24 hours of meeting eachother.. And nobody even popped the question, it just happened.. lol

Pheronomes, my friend. :p

Two people can be equally and simultaneously physically attracted to each other. I have had it happen. Not bragging, but some of the best sex I have ever had was with a woman that I met at a business function...and we just tore each other up. What memories...too bad I'm old and it'llnever happen again..........*loads pistol...writes note*


j/k
 

bonk102

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Originally posted by: Jehovah
I agree. "Love at first sight" is really a female way of saying "I want to boink the hell out of you until both our crotches are black and blue" ;) :D:D:D

hahahha
 

Yeeny

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Originally posted by: bonk102
Originally posted by: Jehovah
I agree. "Love at first sight" is really a female way of saying "I want to boink the hell out of you until both our crotches are black and blue" ;) :D:D:D

hahahha

But I'm the female, and I am the one saying no! Talk about role reversal.

;)
 

sash1

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Kylie Minogue does:

"And everything went from wrong to right
And the stars came out and filled up the sky
The music you were playing really blew my mind
It was love at first sight

'cause baby when I heard you
For the first time
I knew we were meant to be as one"


~Aunix
 

BooGiMaN

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Originally posted by: Syringer
I've known a lot of girls that didn't until they met me ;)

are we talking about girls as in human beings or um.... some kinda girl animal? :p
 

habib89

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i'd like to believe in love at first sight... i'm one of them hopeless romantics.. very hopeless.. but anyhow.. it's a nice thought.. so i said yes..
 

busmaster11

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I recall a perfect description of LAFS:

When two very horny, but not particularly choosy people get together.
 
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Originally posted by: habib89
i'd like to believe in love at first sight... i'm one of them hopeless romantics.. very hopeless.. but anyhow.. it's a nice thought.. so i said yes..

*waits until the harsh reality of life sets in* :brokenheart:
 

datalink7

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No way. Lust at first sight? Yes. But love is something more than appearance, and so called "love at first sight" is only based on appearance.
 

melly

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seeing as how we share the same sun sign *PINCH* (;) ) whatever you replied to for Eli's answer is exactly how i see it.

:)
 

Yeeny

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Originally posted by: caramel
seeing as how we share the same sun sign *PINCH* (;) ) whatever you replied to for Eli's answer is exactly how i see it.

:)

Cancers roxor.

;)
 

agnitrate

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Originally posted by: Yeeny
Originally posted by: caramel
seeing as how we share the same sun sign *PINCH* (;) ) whatever you replied to for Eli's answer is exactly how i see it.

:)

Cancers roxor.

;)

Cancers rule! I was born a Cancer AND on Friday the 13th. Talk about being born under a bad sign.

Anyways, I voted no. I agree that it's just a very intense attraction until they get to know each other better.

-silver