Do you believe in a "Soul Mate"?

Noriaki

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Do you believe in a "Soul Mate"?

Do you think there is one person out there for you? Or do you think that you could have a relationship with a lot of different people with a little effort, provided you have some things in common.

Dicuss :)
 

Cosmo

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if there is a soul mate for every one it's one lucky coincident that they are usually living in the same country.
or maybe married people are just biding their time waiting for the right one to come along. I'm happy with what i have but i do not kid myself and think that she is the only person on earth that could make me feel like this. Neither am I for her and we just got to take from there.
 

venk

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I belive i know what type of human the perfect women for me is, finding her, is a completly different story.
 

Noriaki

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I have a good understanding of what qualities a woman would have to have to be a good choice for me as well.

But my question is, do you believe that there is only one single person that fits that. Or could multile people fit it?
 

Siva

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I thought you loved me, and only me Noriaki! :(:(:(

Seriously though, yes. A soul mate is someone you can share everything with a best friend that is closer to you than anyone else. My life couldn't be happier since I found mine.
 

Sohcan

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A talking space coyote told me I have to find my soul mate. My memory of the event is hazy, but I believe it occurred after I ate some Guatamalan insanity peppers at a chili cook-off.
 

myputer

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<< I thought you loved me, and only me Noriaki! :(:(:(

Seriously though, yes. A soul mate is someone you can share everything with a best friend that is closer to you than anyone else. My life couldn't be happier since I found mine.
>>



Good for you Siva! Do you we get to see a pic of her?;)
 

IBhacknU

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<< Do you believe in a &quot;Soul Mate&quot;? >>

Yea... only problem is I found her after I got married :(
 

Isla

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I used to believe and hope to find mine but the Mister told me that he thought any number of women would be a good match for him, just different than me. And this was from a man who saved his virginity for marriage. I have to assume I have disappointed him in some respects but he knows I am the best mother for his children, so it appears he will keep me. :p

So, even if there is such a thing as a soul mate for me out there, he's too bloody late! I thought I met my soul mate once but he didn't seem to feel the same way, so I don't really trust my judgement.

I believe in making the best of things, and so I have no complaints. I have a relatively good marriage/partnership and a nice family life, which I appreciate deeply. I've kind of come to the conclusion that soul mates are the equivalent of the Tooth Fairy. Nice fantasy, but then you grow up.

Maybe, in twenty years, the Mister will look at me and say 'no one could have been better'. I kind of hope so, but if not, oh well.
 

Russ

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No, there is no such thing as a Soul Mate. There are people that we become attracted to because they fall within instinctive parameters buried within in us and then, given enough time, some can convince themselves that they are in &quot;love&quot;.

Russ, NCNE
 

Aenygma

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Yes. The universe is not as disorderly as it appears, too much has ben laid out to be as random as one could so easily dismiss it as.

You can have many &quot;loves&quot; in your life, just as there are many different &quot;types&quot; of love.

You can have the love of a friend, the love of a sibling, the love of your parents, pets, g/f',b/f's. However, we believe there is one love, that falls above all those.

Without that, there in a sense could be chaos, as one would never truly know.. gee is this them, or maybe this person I bumpped into might be better.

We also do not believe, this means you have to meet them ever.

It's very possible your Soul Mate was killed at an early age, perhaps ( though we believe that fate tries to bring them together it does not always work)

There are many other forces out there at work on us than we may realize.

On a bright note though, we also believe that when we all die, we do get reunited with our soul mates, so even if you never got to know them on Earth, you will eventually.

People get married too fast and without thinking their feelings through a lot. It's easy to fall in love with someone, but that does not mean they are your soul mate. :)


Smile!
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kaiotes

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i met my soul mate, but she aint interested in the way that i want her :( just wanan be 'friends'
 

PCResources

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Sure, i find a new &quot;soul mate&quot; every weekend...

Seriously, i thought that my wife was my soul mate, turns out she was screwing the neighbour, so no more... I used to be the hopeless romantic, now i am only hopless.. ;-)

I just have fun, i find lot's of girls, lot's of kissing, lot's of loving... But do i really care any more? Nope...

Patrick