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Do you always fight with your spouse?

My parents argued viciously for my entire childhood (when they argued...) My wifes parents did not EVER argue openly in front of thier children. Neither way in our opinion was healthy.

My wife and I, when we argue in front of our kids, try and be rational. It kind of keeps us a little more flexible knowing that ultimately we are modeling the relationship we want our children to have with thier SO's.
 
Hardly ever, we don't let it get that far. One recent example She for years has complanied about me not rinseing out the shower or tub in the morning when I'm pressed for time. So I now use the spare bathroom and she has the master all to herself. Problem sovled.

Some things I do which might help.

-I go buy gifts anytime of the year just to show her how much I care
-I make a mess i clean it
-I never bother her about financial issues

Women are pretty perfect so 90% of the time it's the guys fault if your fighting. Why do think almost all divorce cases are initiated by the women?
 
I thinky my wife has mental or health problems, i think something wrong with her hormones. she has 5 moodswings a day and starts to argue over anything
 
Originally posted by: Wduaqnug
I thinky my wife has mental or health problems, i think something wrong with her hormones. she has 5 moodswings a day and starts to argue over anything
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Is she on the pill? Sometimes this can do it and she only needs a different perscription to stabalize her hormones. Have you talked about this in a civil manner?

 
Originally posted by: Wduaqnug
I thinky my wife has mental or health problems, i think something wrong with her hormones. she has 5 moodswings a day and starts to argue over anything
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sounds to me as though you've lost perspective. No offense.

How did you miss that before you married her? why did you marry her?
 
Not any more. I have a estranged wife with no clue as to what city she is in. At least I have the kids... she is a couple beers short of a six pack.
 
Not to hash it all out in a public forum but you are really not giving enough information to make any judgement on. I can understand since it's an emotional issue but I need more data. I suggest talking with her not us if possible and may even get some couseling if you're both agreeable.
 
Originally posted by: Wduaqnug
I thinky my wife has mental or health problems, i think something wrong with her hormones. she has 5 moodswings a day and starts to argue over anything
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Welcome to the wonderful world of women.
 
Originally posted by: Carbonyl
Hardly ever, we don't let it get that far. One recent example She for years has complanied about me not rinseing out the shower or tub in the morning when I'm pressed for time. So I now use the spare bathroom and she has the master all to herself. Problem sovled.

Some things I do which might help.

-I go buy gifts anytime of the year just to show her how much I care
-I make a mess i clean it
-I never bother her about financial issues

Women are pretty perfect so 90% of the time it's the guys fault if your fighting. Why do think almost all divorce cases are initiated by the women?
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Well, you've apparently never had a bad woman eh? Either that or she's got you chained up good 😉
 
I beat her over the head with a stick. Now she doesn't move
























j/k

Never argue with my gf, only joke and play around. Nothing to argue about.
 
You answered a question with a question. Once again why are almost all divorce cases initiated by the women? And to answer your question yes I'm owned and proud of it😛
 
Originally posted by: Carbonyl
You answered a question with a question. Once again why are almost all divorce cases initiated by the women? And to answer your question yes I'm owned and proud of it😛
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Because all the men cheat on them.
 
I don't fight with anybody,I tend to be conflict avoidant and go out of my way to please and placate,it beats the hell out of fighting🙂
 
I never really fought with my ex girlfriend, although now that it comes to it, a lot more would have been solved if we had let it out instead of bottling it out.

But screaming or fighting or arguing loudly is never necessary. And if you think women are never at fault you are stark raving mad.
 
I thinky my wife has mental or health problems, i think something wrong with her hormones. she has 5 moodswings a day and starts to argue over anything
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This was my wife yesterday. Of course, she's on the rag.

Slightly OT: So...why is it that women get angrier when you point out that the only reason they are angry is because "Aunt Flo is in town"?

Men: If you haven't tried this yet, do so at your own risk!
Women: Is it because you become overwhelmed by your emotions and can't your outbursts?
 
Originally posted by: cherrytwist
I thinky my wife has mental or health problems, i think something wrong with her hormones. she has 5 moodswings a day and starts to argue over anything
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This was my wife yesterday. Of course, she's on the rag. Slightly OT: So...why is it that women get angrier when you point out that the only reason they are angry is because "Aunt Flo is in town"? Men: If you haven't tried this yet, do so at your own risk! Women: Is it because you become overwhelmed by your emotions and can't your outbursts?
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NOT a good idea! I once had her apologize to me a day later because it was that time of the month. Women should be forced to wear a red armband during those few days so men know to stay away. It is just not fair to us.
 
So...why is it that women get angrier when you point out that the only reason they are angry is because "Aunt Flo is in town"?
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Unless you're into extreme sports, I highly recommend never doing the above:Q

 
The wife and I rarely fight after years of working at creating a great relationship. We're both very strong-willed and hard-headed so it was difficult in the first years of our marriage and we had a couple of separations; now we've been able to break through our stubborn sides and we're a very solid couple, each giving and taking at the appropriate times. Marriage is great but it takes work and it's worth it in the long run; fortunately for us, we never looked at divorce as an option.
 
no, my old lady is meaner than i am!

SHE'D WHOOP MY AcE
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