Do women get boring?

[watdahel]

A while ago someone created a post about how long one can do without sex. The response was amusing and interesting. Those who are married said they get it once on a full moon; young couples do it weekly; posers got it every hour.

What I truly want to know is do women really lose interest in sex as they get older while guys continue to chug along? I've read that women lose interest after having their first child. They will occasionally have sex in order to keep the men in their lives but it's no longer a priority.

That sucks I thinks. If I was having sex I want my mate to crave and enjoy it as much as I do. I don't want her to do it as if it's a chore. This is why 50% of marriages fail if you ask me?

 

[judasmachine]

yes.

/thread

 

[minendo]

Do women get boring?

Only if you don't hit it and quit it.

 

[OrganizedChaos]

no. they will always find new, exciting, and creative methods to fvck with your head. when you find them boring its because they've finally driven you psychotic.

 

[Captante]

No more so then men.

 

[masterxfob]

i have a problem keeping relationships beyond 1-1.5 years. however, i am getting older (and hopefully wiser) and am actually wanting to have a kid sometime in the not to distant future.

 

[db]

Guys think that when they get married they will get sex all the time.
Women want romance to continue.
Neither happens.
Guys don't know how to hear what women are saying.
Women don't know that guys are problem solvers rather than empaths.

 

[fire400]

Originally posted by: Captante
No more so then men.

Too true. Op is either sexest or views women as objects, "only to please men?"

I hardly ever talk about sex with my friends who are girls (not that I talk about it with my guy friends either, not intentionally at least). It's really not of any topic to be discussing about for fun, other than being health-related and political for that matter. But I mean, you gotta be pretty low to consider how long you can hang out with a girl before intercourse takes place between the both of you. I mean, way.. "low, like [you need help, man..]"

Your social skills must be pretty underdeveloped in professional standards to be considering the stereo-type of females to be boring over time, unless you rephrase the question in saying "specific women" or "some women" - "can get boring" or "at different times" or "different places." - finishes: can become boring
--or--
"I AM A FAIRLY BORING PERSON, is the reason why I think women can become more bored with me, compared to other people they may spend more or less time with."

I don't wanna dis' you, Op, but if you ever get married, assuming you aren't right now, show this thread to your future spouse. -lol

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: db
Guys think that when they get married they will get sex all the time.
Women want romance to continue.
Neither happens.
Guys don't know how to hear what women are saying.
Women don't know that guys are problem solvers rather than empaths.

That is sooooo true. :beer:

 

[homercles337]

Originally posted by: OrganizedChaos
no. they will always find new, exciting, and creative methods to fvck with your head. when you find them boring its because they've finally driven you psychotic.

Ha! QFT. Youre a wise man Chaos.

 

[homercles337]

Originally posted by: masterxfob
i have a problem keeping relationships beyond 1-1.5 years. however, i am getting older (and hopefully wiser) and am actually wanting to have a kid sometime in the not to distant future.

Dont be a dope sparky. Breeding is for dopes. Dont breed sparky.

 

[rhino56]

i imagine women would become boring if you're gay

 

[pkme2]

Men have a definite problem when relating with women.
They don't know how to listen to what women say.
They assume one thing but women mean something else.
Don't get on my case because I'm one of those guys.
You learn more as you grow older and never stop till you're in your grave.
Understanding women has always been my problem.
So if you think women get bored, I have to sadly agree.

 

[judasmachine]

Originally posted by: OrganizedChaos
no. they will always find new, exciting, and creative methods to fvck with your head. when you find them boring its because they've finally driven you psychotic.

I thought I was right till I read your response, now I know why I am like I am.....

 

[judasmachine]

Originally posted by: db
Guys think that when they get married they will get sex all the time.
Women want romance to continue.
Neither happens.
Guys don't know how to hear what women are saying.
Women don't know that guys are problem solvers rather than empaths.

there are other reasons. my so and i are very romantic, and affectionate, but her birth control method has just about destroyed her sex drive. and as i get older, i care less and less about sex. it's still great when we do, but it's just once a week now after close to seven years.

 

[alimoalem]

Originally posted by: erwin1978
This is why 50% of marriages fail if you ask me?

dude ur a dumbass. the reason 50% of marriages fail (and this basically in the US and a couple other countries MAYBE) is cause the average american is a dumbass and marries the good f**k

 

[GTaudiophile]

Originally posted by: db
Guys think that when they get married they will get sex all the time.
Women want romance to continue.
Neither happens.
Guys don't know how to hear what women are saying.
Women don't know that guys are problem solvers rather than empaths.

QFT!

 

[Lola]

studies have shown that womens sexual peek is around 30 y/o. To me, that says women SHOULD want sex more, however, if a couple fails to try and reinvent themselves, they get stuck in that "rut".
Women should never get boring. There are a million ways to keep things interesting. Same goes for men.

 

[stars]

Marriages fail for many different reasons. It is not possible for any one person to know why each individual marriage ends or if all women truly become bored. Yet, we continue to reply and share our views based solely upon our assumptions and the past experiences that we have endured to this point in our lives. Even if the knowledge were to be obtainable, why would anyone want to know?

Personally, I think love (love, being what keeps two together) cannot be defined by putting it under a microscope or by trying to pick out certain characteristics that we find attractive.

In my opinion, I think that throughout our lives we constantly evolve emotionally and mentally, while we physically decline. During these transitions, we either grasp the substance we seek or we find it in something else. It is simply in our nature as humans.

 

[JulesMaximus]

I've been married for 14 years and my wife and I still get it on a couple times a week generally. Sometimes more, sometimes less but if anything, I'd say she enjoys it more now than she did when she was in her 20s. I'd say I still enjoy it as much as I did when I was younger.

 

[cherrytwist]

Originally posted by: db
Guys think that when they get married they will get sex all the time.
Women want romance to continue.
Neither happens.
Guys don't know how to hear what women are saying.
Women don't know that guys are problem solvers rather than empaths.

True.
False.
N/A
False.
They can be both.

 

[DaTT]

Women never get boring.......just play with teh bewbs.

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: cherrytwist

Originally posted by: db
Guys think that when they get married they will get sex all the time.
Women want romance to continue.
Neither happens.
Guys don't know how to hear what women are saying.
Women don't know that guys are problem solvers rather than empaths.

True.
False.
N/A
False.
They can be both.

Both of you...stop generalizing!

It is really on a case by case basis.

I do agree that some guys (naming myself here) have a very difficult time listening and not being "allowed" to solve the problem. Friend of mine yelled at me once for trying to help her solve her problem, when all she wanted me to do was listen. What the hell is the point of listening when they don't want you to help solve the problem?

disclaimer: this has been my experience with SOME women I know.

 

[allisolm]

I've read that women lose interest after having their first child.

Don't believe everything you read and especially not that.

 

[olds]

My experience shows that woman get more amorous as they age. Up to a certain age.
The problem is men have a wandering eye and look for new "conquests". That may make it seem like they are bored with their wives.