DJ cancels party for 'light-skinned' blacks

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DETROIT -- A local DJ and party promoter retreated Thursday from a plan to sponsor a bash that would let "light-skinned" black women into a downtown club for free.

But the "Light Skin Libra Birthday Bash" at Club APT on Woodward Avenue turned out to be a bashing -- of promoter Ulysses "DJ Lish" Barnes after word of the unusual party spread on the Internet.

"I made a mistake," Barnes said. "I didn't think there would be a backlash."

Barnes, who said he's been a party promoter for six years, canceled the event.

He said he has gotten angry calls and e-mails from around the country about the party.

"I didn't mean to offend anyone," he said. "I had planned a party for other shades (of black women). We were going to take a shade of color each week. Next week was going to be a party for 'Sexy Chocolate' and the week after that 'Sexy Caramel.' "

Barnes is African-American and describes himself as "dark skinned." The issue of skin color is an often painful and emotional among African-Americans. The history of slavery and the resulting legacy of intra-racial segregation have sometimes pitted darker-skinned and lighter-skinned blacks against one another.

A noted Los Angeles-based activist who goes by the name of Pearl Jr. was among the chorus of voices complaining about the party.

"I had a good conversation with him and he understood," said Pearl Jr., founder of the Black Women's Movement in Los Angeles and the author of the book "Black Women Need Love, Too."

"Ignorance can't always be an excuse," she said. "Colorism is real in the black community. It's especially very degrading to dark-skinned black women."

The party's discriminating tone harkens to the day of the "brown paper bag test," which compared the complexions of blacks to a brown grocery bag before they could be admitted to social clubs and affairs, said Pearl Jr.

The activist said she had a heart-to-heart talk with Barnes and he immediately told her he would cancel the party.

"He was basically falling in line with what we have been taught (by society) that the less African-looking you are the better you are," said Pearl Jr. "Basing whether someone is admitted on their skin color is discriminatory, which is really against the law."

Comments on Web sites and blogs about the party included urging a boycott of the party and filing a lawsuit against the party's promoter.

"The way this should be handled is that our light-skinned sisters should refuse to go unless the darker-skinned sisters received the same treatment," wrote one blogger. "We must stand together and not allow ANYONE, especially, a club to divide us."

Barnes said he is hoping to host an event to raise money for a charity to make up for whatever problems or pain he caused over the party flier.

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flxnimprtmscl

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One more perfect example of people who have way too much free time to get pissed off about things that really don't matter.
 

spidey07

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"Barnes is African-American and describes himself as "dark skinned." The issue of skin color is an often painful and emotional among African-Americans. The history of slavery and the resulting legacy of intra-racial segregation have sometimes pitted darker-skinned and lighter-skinned blacks against one another. "

So, who is it that is perpetuating this pitting of dark vs. lighter color.

Hmmm.....me sees a pattern here. It sure isn't white folks.
 

Goosemaster

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The party's discriminating tone harkens to the day of the "brown paper bag test," which compared the complexions of blacks to a brown grocery bag before they could be admitted to social clubs and affairs, said Pearl Jr.


Holy sh!t that's sooooooooooooooooooooooooo fvking cold:laugh:
 

Phokus

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It's funny, but i only recently found out that blacks actually have higher social status within their own community with lighter skin ("high yellow" being the "best" skin color possible for a black person).

Totally wacky.
 

TehMac

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The whole thing is plain retarded. He wasn't not letting people in, he was letting some peeps in for free, and it'd be for a different group each week. I tell you, some people just want to cry racism any chance they fucking get.
 

shortylickens

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Originally posted by: spidey07
"Barnes is African-American and describes himself as "dark skinned." The issue of skin color is an often painful and emotional among African-Americans. The history of slavery and the resulting legacy of intra-racial segregation have sometimes pitted darker-skinned and lighter-skinned blacks against one another. "
So, who is it that is perpetuating this pitting of dark vs. lighter color.
Hmmm.....me sees a pattern here. It sure isn't white folks.
One way or another, someone will find a way to blame the white man, and then probably cry for reparation money and automatic employment.

 

dennilfloss

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The whole thing is plain retarded. He wasn't not letting people in, he was letting some peeps in for free, and it'd be for a different group each week. I tell you, some people just want to cry racism any chance they fucking get.

Some people need to get a thicker skin.;)
 

Skacer

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All I can say, is that dude should be glad he's black. If a fucking white dude did that ... oh god.
 

loup garou

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Originally posted by: Skacer
All I can say, is that dude should be glad he's black. If a fucking white dude did that ... oh god.

hmm...maybe I should cancel my Albino HO-down. :/
 
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Originally posted by: dennilfloss
The whole thing is plain retarded. He wasn't not letting people in, he was letting some peeps in for free, and it'd be for a different group each week. I tell you, some people just want to cry racism any chance they fucking get.

Some people need to get a lighter shade skin.;)


Fixed!
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: Goosemaster
The party's discriminating tone harkens to the day of the "brown paper bag test," which compared the complexions of blacks to a brown grocery bag before they could be admitted to social clubs and affairs, said Pearl Jr.


Holy sh!t that's sooooooooooooooooooooooooo fvking cold:laugh:

Brown Paper bags make many white women more acceptable too!
 

Throckmorton

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Pretty amazing how many posters in this thread think it's OK and somehow not discrimination.

I don't know if all of you realize this, but the darkness of a black person's skin is largely dependent on how much of their ancestry is white vs how much is black.

Skin color discrimination is a real problem... A study showed that black parents treat their lighter skinned children better than their darker ones. It's not some kind of genetic behavior. It's a part of social conditioning.

The same is true with Indians. Ever hear them talking about how drinking cola will make their skin darker? Some Indians rub lemon juice on their kids' skin to make it lighter.

I don't know what the root of the Indian phenomenon, but you'd be naive to think it doesn't have anything to do with being taken by white people from Africa into slavery in a white country. If you do think that it has nothing to do with white people, you're using the politically correct/non critical thinking circuits in your brain. Africans don't have the same prejudices.


Since the DJ had a different shade every day of the week, I think it's safe to say it was a joke, but a bad joke nonetheless.
 

uhohs

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Originally posted by: Phokus
It's funny, but i only recently found out that blacks actually have higher social status within their own community with lighter skin ("high yellow" being the "best" skin color possible for a black person).

Totally wacky.

i found out about that from watching fresh prince. :confused: