Originally posted by: SampSon
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
I think that if the marriage lasted for decades and the wife was a stay at home mom or part time worker... and they divorce without her having any real expectation of earning a high salary... and if the husband does well in his career then i think it is a good thing.
but under any other circumstances... i believe that each side of the marriage should walk away with ONLY what they brought in and 1/2 of what was earned/appreciated while they were married.
but i would also re-vamp the entire child support system, too.
So on top of alimony, the wife should expect to get at least half of the husbands earnings for the rest of his/her life? You have got to be kidding me.
I could go on for a while about this, but I guess I'll just make a few points and end it.
If they have been married for decades then most likely their children are grown and no longer dependent, this really does away with the vast majority of the money a divorced woman needs to live. If you have no dependent children then you should not be entitled to any of the ex-husbands future earnings. Sorry hun, time to go out and get yourself a job and support yourself, time to join the rest of the world. Yea it may suck, but guess what, life sucks deal with it. If you want to continue to not work and live the lifestyle you have, then don't get divorced.
The entire point of a divorce is to separate you life from that individual and get on with the rest of your life. Why should the man be responsible for continueing to give half of his earnings to a women he has nothing to do with for the rest of his life? If they want to be separated then that's what they should be, buh bye, have a good life.
Each divorce needs to be examined very closely on a case by case basis, because this type of ruling could set a very unfair precedent. As it is divorce laws, hell most laws for that matter, are ridiculously biased in favor of women. This would make it even worse.
The #1 point in this type of ruling will be that a women gave up her career advancement in order to stay at home and raise children. Well sad as that may be it was also 50% her choice, no one forced her hand into doing that. If you reversed this situation where the man gave up his professional life to stay at home I am willing to bet this same precedent of taking future earnings would never be set the same way.
Women want to be equal only when it benefits them most.