Disturbing - what to do about a stalker who moved from MA to CA to be near me?

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Eli

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Wow, that's really scary! :Q Seriously.... People like that scare the sh!t out of me. They're loose canons, you just never know what they're going to do.....

Man, I dunno... Move away, again. Change your last name...

Ridiculous that you should have to do these things, but I don't know what else you can do.... I don't think he's done anything illegal, yet.

Be careful.. :(
 

Eli

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Originally posted by: Saulbadguy
This is just a regurgitated thread that you posted a couple of years ago. STFU, and stop whining.
What... the ... FSCK?

:|
 

DougK62

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Go to the police station and tell them the situation. Most of the time they won't have a problem sending an officer or two over to talk to the person - unless you're fugly.

Don't stress too much about removing all of your info off the internet. Once posted to the net info will ALWAYS be around in caches and archives. Just change what you can and be more careful in the future.

 

TheNinja

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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Let me know if I can be of any help. I live in San Diego and I own guns! ;) J/K. :p

It's true, I saw him post of picture of his girls hands ;) holding a large revolver!
 

SagaLore

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You need to take care of this now before you have kids. THEN it will get scary. Contact the police and a lawyer and see what they have to say about this.
 

JulesMaximus

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Originally posted by: TheNinja
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Let me know if I can be of any help. I live in San Diego and I own guns! ;) J/K. :p

It's true, I saw him post of picture of his girls hands ;) holding a large revolver!

I just added the link to that pic...just for you Ninja! ;)
 

ITJunkie

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Originally posted by: Skoorb
Man, you really pick them. This is not the first time you've created a thread about some fvcking idiot you started dating.

Tell him if he loves you to make sure you're still primary ben on that life insurance policy, and to go surfing, and never come back.

 

MaxDepth

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I guess that new dye job must have gotten him all hot and bothered to move out there. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure it looks good but I ain't moving out there to see it person.

Of course you could always resurrect that little hispanic beat-boy with all those violent tendencies you used to date and sic him on the stalker...


Kidding aside (and I can kid because I've had my own stalker): he emails you? Just call up your ISP, even it is a big one like Verizon and have them put a spam bounce on his emails. Every time he sends you an email it will bounce back and warn him not to attempt to contact you further or face criminal charges. Phone block too.
 

Squisher

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I don't see how you're going to remain posting on this forum if:

He knows you post here.

And, you can't keep from posting enough personal info so that we know who you are or were.








 

SagaLore

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Originally posted by: Tomato
He sent me the e-mail from his new workplace, and I typed in the URL of his new company which is indeed located in Laguna Beach. :( The e-mail also has his new phone number and company address, which is only 40 minutes away. :(

Send him a pair of dirty panties in the mail. When he emails you and is all excited, then send back an email with an attachment of a picture, with your fiance in those panties.
 

venk

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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: TheNinja
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Let me know if I can be of any help. I live in San Diego and I own guns! ;) J/K. :p

It's true, I saw him post of picture of his girls hands ;) holding a large revolver!

I just added the link to that pic...just for you Ninja! ;)


Your girl has Man Hands! :Q
 

JulesMaximus

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Originally posted by: SagaLore
Originally posted by: Tomato
He sent me the e-mail from his new workplace, and I typed in the URL of his new company which is indeed located in Laguna Beach. :( The e-mail also has his new phone number and company address, which is only 40 minutes away. :(

Send him a pair of dirty panties in the mail. When he emails you and is all excited, then send back an email with an attachment of a picture, with your fiance in those panties.

Now that's comedy! :laugh:
 

JulesMaximus

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Originally posted by: venk
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: TheNinja
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Let me know if I can be of any help. I live in San Diego and I own guns! ;) J/K. :p

It's true, I saw him post of picture of his girls hands ;) holding a large revolver!

I just added the link to that pic...just for you Ninja! ;)


Your girl has Man Hands! :Q

Um...that would be my hand in that picture. :) Ninja just sucks at grammar. ;)
 

Epoman

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Originally posted by: Nitemare
Dear Tomato, I wrote but you still ain't callin
I left my cell, my pager, and my home phone at the bottom
I sent two letters back in autumn, you must not-a got 'em
There probably was a problem at the post office or somethin
Sometimes I scribble addresses too sloppy when I jot 'em
but anyways; fvck it, what's been up? Girl how's your posting?
My girlfriend's pregnant too, I'm bout to be a father
If I have a daughter, guess what I'ma call her?
I'm a name her Mater
I read about your Uncle Ronnie too I'm sorry
I had a friend kill himself over some b!tch who didn't want him
I know you probably hear this everyday, but I'm your biggest fan
I even got the underground sh!t that you did with Xanga
I got a room full of your posters and your pictures man
I like the sh!t you did with Blogging too, that sh!t was fat
Anyways, I hope you get this girl, hit me back,
just to chat, truly yours, your biggest fan
Your friend in Christ, Steve.

:music:

:music:My tea's gone cold, I'm wondering why I got out of bed
at all the morning rain clouds up my window and I can't see
at all And even if I could it'd all be grey, but your picture
on my wall it reminds me that it's not so bad, it's not so bad

My tea's gone cold,I'm wondering why I got out of bed
at all the morning rain clouds up my window and I can't see
at all And even if I could it'd all be grey, but your picture
on my wall t reminds me that it's not so bad, it's not so bad:music:

HEY you needed the chorus. :D


 

moshquerade

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to be on the safe side in the future you should stop posting details of your life and pictures on the internet. it encourages stalkers.
 

Ameesh

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Originally posted by: Tomato
Originally posted by: Skoorb
Man, you really pick them. This is not the first time you've created a thread about some fvcking idiot you started dating.

Tell him if he loves you to make sure you're still primary ben on that life insurance policy, and to go surfing, and never come back.

I wish he'd just off and DIAF. Seems that would be too easy. :(

just ignore him, dont speak to him dont reply to his emails, put his name on your spam filters, etc. hopefully he'll find another obsession.