Just want to put out into the public knowledge that disrespecting a person (even slightly) has very little benefit. I'm not talking about direct insults, or even things that are intentional.
I'm talking about little things. Interrupting, changing a subject abruptly, showing up late, saying anything in a negative light. People HATE that.
Here's how I look at things. We can either treat someone respectfully and have them return the favor, or we can act disrespectfully and create bitterness.
I asked around, and people take little things just as seriously as I do. But they don't go around advertising that they are annoyed. They just start showing less effort towards helping you, stop responding, etc. I've been told this happens in real life relationships, businesses, and employee/employer relationships.
In fact I think it's better to just come out and tell a person how you feel rather than let it boil over in your head.
My .25 on this.
-Amp
p.s. None of these rules apply on the internet.
I'm talking about little things. Interrupting, changing a subject abruptly, showing up late, saying anything in a negative light. People HATE that.
Here's how I look at things. We can either treat someone respectfully and have them return the favor, or we can act disrespectfully and create bitterness.
I asked around, and people take little things just as seriously as I do. But they don't go around advertising that they are annoyed. They just start showing less effort towards helping you, stop responding, etc. I've been told this happens in real life relationships, businesses, and employee/employer relationships.
In fact I think it's better to just come out and tell a person how you feel rather than let it boil over in your head.
My .25 on this.
-Amp
p.s. None of these rules apply on the internet.
