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frankierx

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my friend of the past 6 months is putting me down the last 2 weeks. We haven't seen each other the past 2 weeks. i tried to ask her out to the movies and to dinner. She has rejected me. On our last dinner together, I hugged her. She asked me to stay a little bit to talk. We talked a little. Then she told me to go now. So I went. I didnt and havent kissed her yet. I didnt feel like it was imperative to inorder to keep her interest. She called me the next day and also visited my work place. Then I got sick and so I couldnt initiate anything with her. She is moving into her new home at the end of January. She says she is too busy to make any plans with me for the next month. She says that her pc crashed and not to email her because shes using an incompatible os. wtf? wtf gives?

I am so sad. I am not thinking clearly. I feel so sad.

Update:

We talked tonight for an hour and a half. We got everything straigthened out that we're friends and shes got a bf that she explained at the beginning of our friendship 6 months ago. If I get hurt, its because of me. I told her that she and I need to talk more openly about our friendship as of late, since I thought I was doing pretty well as a friend but felt confused when I noticed myself changing towards her as of late. Changing and feeling confused in a grey area of friendship when you "cross the boundary".

We're all better now. Including myself.
 
Ask her what's up... talk to her about it. Then you'll know how she feels, although it kind of sounds like she doesn't think of you in that way.
 
Originally posted by: frankierx
Originally posted by: SampSon
Are you fvcking retarded?
Get the hint!
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please i am not rude. i am a gentleman. that is the only reason why she has even been a friend to me this long.
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SHE DOES NOT WANT YOU AS A BOYFRIEND OR AS ANYTHING ELSE RESEMBLING A RELATIONSHIP

I'd venture to guess she thinks you are coming on to her and she doesn't like it.

btw, 6 months isn't a very long time.
 
Originally posted by: gw186
6 months and not even a kiss, she probably got tired of waiting and moved on.
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I live with my parents. It's hard to invite her over if I have that hanging over me.
 
Originally posted by: moshquerade
she is making it plainly clear that she wants nothing to do with you. move on.
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ayep. she waited long enough for you to make your move and she has moved on.
 
Originally posted by: frankierx
my friend of the past 6 months is putting me down the last 2 weeks. We haven't seen each other the past 2 weeks. i tried to ask her out to the movies and to dinner. She has rejected me. On our last dinner together, I hugged her. She asked me to stay a little bit to talk. We talked a little. Then she told me to go now. So I went. I didnt and havent kissed her yet. I didnt feel like it was imperative to inorder to keep her interest. She called me the next day and also visited my work place. Then I got sick and so I couldnt initiate anything with her. She is moving into her new home at the end of January. She says she is too busy to make any plans with me for the next month. She says that her pc crashed and not to email her because shes using an incompatible os. wtf? wtf gives?

I am so sad. I am not thinking clearly. I feel so sad.
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Comon both of us know what gives. You just need to deal with your denial.

 
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