If a realtor pushes you towards a home inspector it should be a HUGE red flag. I can tell you that from personal experience. Many knowledgeable people recommend hiring one form out of town, if possible.
Home warranties reasonable? The one that got pushed on me cost almost $800 for a year. You're telling me you'd spend $2400 for three years worth of warranty? You can replace three appliances with that. Not to mention it's a scam business.
I'm not sure I understand why you think taking a recommendation for a home inspector is a red flag.
Also, just because you got hosed on your home warranty doesn't mean we all will. Mine is $500/yr and the seller is paying the first year. I'm buying a 40 year old house, so it's something that may come useful. If not, well, I'd rather waste $500 than find out I need to pay $5000 in repairs in 9 months.
