UPDATE 08/24/2006: i called my family doc and informed him of my dissatisfaction with the cardiologist, so he referred me to another one. this new one is on top of his game. he talked to my wife and i like we were people and had a 45+min visit with him, nor did he excuse my situation due to my age - i have only been trying to see a cardiologist for ~10yrs based on my family cardiovascular history. the news is i need to get a stress test and a electrocardiogram done, but it can't be done until the 31st, which means since my neurosurgeon is taking a long weekend for labor day, the earliest i can get in for the spinal surgery is either 09/07 or 09/12. this is if the stress test comes back and i am cleared.....guess we will wait and see. the stress test should last ~4hrs total, but i would much rather be safe and thorough than dead.
last night i typed up my living will, that was a weird endeavor, but it needed to be done in case something happens so my wife won't have to make decisions she knows i would want her to make but would be hard for her to do. interesting times these are...