e_mc_2-That was beautiful
He is so right, why be someone that you aren't? The female partner will find out eventually, and you WILL hate yourself.
I've gone through many of your situations, pamchenko, after pathetic attepts to be someone I wasn't, I finally decided to be myself, and hell, it worked like a charm! Give it a try! Self-Confidence is also the key, not ego-like, but, you know
Pid, TYRP